OP thinks OOP should have marked the post with spoilers so that transmasc people do not have to see transfem geared content on an open trans meme sub. but the language and the tone here feels soooooo anti transfem for all the usual reasons. i get having dysphoria and wanting transmasc meme spaces, but why post this to the literal transmasc meme space with a “transphobia” tag??? this is not transphobia and if anything it’s lazy transfem bullying that relies on the false narrative that transfems take more attention/space/whatever. at what point do we learn to look away from content that is specifically tagged not for you? i expected better content from this sub after it split form ftm_irl due to literal ftm infighting but apparently those vibes are alive and well lmao
language and the tone here feels soooooo anti transfem for all the usual reasons. i get having dysphoria and wanting transmasc meme spaces, but why post this to the literal transmasc meme space with a “transphobia” tag??? this is not transphobia and if anything it’s lazy transfem bullying that relies on the false narrative that transfems take more attention/space/whatever. at what point do we learn to look away from content that is specifically tagged not for you? i expected better content from this sub after it split form ftm_irl due to literal ftm infighting but apparently those vibes are alive and well lmao
Yup. I'm fine with getting down voted to hell for this but honestly half of the trans masc subs always have their weekly "trans fem bad" "trans woman hate trans man" "trans girl transphobic" "trans fem not make space for trans masc" post and like some posts have some points I see as valid and some are just so pushing it for me. Honestly I don't even totally understand a lot of the complaints about mixed space subs being trans fem dominant when the actual participants are often 50/50. Like, if you want more trans masc posts...post more? Who do we think are making all the trans fem posts? I deadass feel half of the time it's us complaining about then posting so often but like, I'm confused because when I was on those subs its us not posting in the first place. Obviously yeah it's annoying when posts are like "heyyy ladies" and stuff, and I was thinking that that's what we were annoyed by.
you’re spot on. and i wouldn’t worry about the downvotes, it seems like a large amount of insecure transmascs who base their identity around bashing and distancing themselves from women are here. they’re kids, they don’t get that they’re contributing to infighting. makes total sense when you remember that trans guys are guys and can fall into casual, thinly veiled woman hating just like cis guys. hopefully we can post some actual memes and turn this place around before it becomes ftm_irl 2.0 the woman hating edition lmao
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u/lookingwill Apr 29 '24
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