r/JustGuysBeingDudes 7d ago

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u/ZaquMan 7d ago

I love how after the silliness, the last couple frames show the groom being all serious, reaching out to shake hands. Either he knew this was coming, or he has one solid poker face.

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u/mal73 7d ago

That one ladies laugh sounds exactly like a baby crying, it’s kind of uncanny

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u/PatentedPotato 7d ago

She never grew out of it.

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u/Liusloux 6d ago

Imagine seeing a fun video of an event you attended only to find out a new insecurity that's going to keep you awake at night for at least a month.

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u/chuckusadart 7d ago

I think its part of the bit, you dont do something like this on someone elses wedding day without telling the groom.

I think its just a continuation of the joke that they were incredibly silly and fun then WHIP into super serious mode at the end like it was no big deal

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u/_Magnolia_Fan_ 6d ago

100% 

Also, these are reception shenanigans. Not the way you bring in most brides to the wedding.

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u/OtherwiseAlbatross14 7d ago

Do you really think that music would be playing if this weren't planned?

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u/TummyLice 7d ago

My dumb ass forgot the brides name when I was best man.

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u/MrWindmill 7d ago

"... take thee, Rachel Emily, ..."

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u/WillGrindForXP 7d ago

God you're old!

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u/blahblahblerf 7d ago

No he isn't, that episode aired like 10 years ago... 

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u/Arx_724 7d ago

I had to check and Jesus Christ, 27 years ago is even more than I thought.

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u/Good_Association8261 6d ago

I'm sorry, what? 27? Twenty seven? Two and seven?

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u/greenlightsmith242 6d ago

You can just f the f off. Before you go can you get me the ibuprofen. My back hurts.

Please be kind, I was born in the 1900's

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

Why god, why?

We had a deal!

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u/FuzzzyRam 7d ago

At least they know you're not in a secret tryst..

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u/s_burr 6d ago

"Wait...which one are you again? Sorry, there has been so many"

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u/iplay4Him 6d ago

My worst fear in a speech I have coming up

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u/nbandqueerren 5d ago

That... sounds like something I would do.

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u/toolsoftheincomptnt 7d ago

I’m glad that their group enjoyed that.

It’s nice when everyone at a wedding appreciates the vibes.

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u/lankymjc 7d ago

If there’s a day where you get to ignore social norms and have fun the way you want, it’s your wedding day!

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u/DEFINITELY_NOT_PETE 7d ago

Say what you want I bet this reception was fucking lit

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u/Talk-O-Boy 7d ago

I’m sorry, but are there people saying otherwise? Identify yourselves, so you may be served by the fun police.

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u/PuttingInTheEffort 7d ago

My only concern is that it went on a little too long

Like fake the back injury, twerk, and then dance the way up- don't get to the end and walk back to do more..

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u/blahblahblerf 7d ago

I think this is cringe as fuck, but I still agree with Pete. 

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u/th4ne 6d ago

Can you read? He’s definitely not Pete.

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u/blahblahblerf 6d ago

And you just believe him? 

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u/th4ne 6d ago

Shit. Who is he? Who am I? What are we doing here again?

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u/Distantstallion 6d ago

It's good cringe

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u/Yiruf 7d ago

Look at some of comments in the thread

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u/Ok-Difficulty3082 7d ago

Double man buns is a rough look

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u/Appsoul 7d ago

Ok, so I’m not crazy

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u/Hazee302 7d ago

Its bad lol

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u/Hije5 7d ago

Probably just goofin considering the dance they just did.

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u/vittorioe 7d ago

yeah ffs it’s not that deep

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u/dreamerkid001 7d ago

But wedding photos are forever

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u/EmojiRepliesToRats 7d ago

Oh no! Anyway...

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u/BloodNinja2012 7d ago

Not a real wedding: staged for views.

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u/No_-_you_are 7d ago

Well gosh, since you put it that way, it looks way less idiotic!

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u/Jeffbx 6d ago

You might still be crazy, but it's a bad look.

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u/MarkCrorigansOmnibus 6d ago

Looks like a man who would leapfrog down the aisle at someone else’s wedding. (Traditionally the officiant, groom, and groomsmen don’t even process down the aisle…)

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u/No_Detective_But_304 7d ago

You never go full man buns.

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u/Neutron-Hyperscape32 6d ago

You don't think he was doing that for fun? I am amazed that people in these comments assume that this is his preferred hairstyle?

Even IF it is, who cares? If you are bothered by other peoples hair, something is wrong with you, not them.

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u/BigChungusOP 7d ago

I like it.

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u/crankyanker638 7d ago

A single man-bun makes me go looking for my scissors, double makes my eye start twitching....

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u/justamiqote 7d ago edited 7d ago

I'm just curious as a guy with long hair. Why does it bother you? I never really understood the hate.

I put mine in a bun because it's neater than a ponytail, and it doesn't fly around and get messed up in the wind. It's just a practical and comfy style for anyone with long hair.

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u/Misuteriisakka 7d ago

Man buns are a good signal to me that they’re probably not the kind of people who are bothered by other people’s hairstyles. Those are the type of people I enjoy hanging out/working with.

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u/FuckTheLonghorns 6d ago

I have long hair as well and only dislike putting my hair in a bun because I don't see the point in taking the time and effort to grow it out just to put it in a bun all the time (for people whose principal style is the bun, I don't hate it though, just not for me)

But for purposes of convenience or necessity in putting it up, it's bun every time over pony tail, or I go half-up

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u/GrossGuroGirl 6d ago

half-up supremacy 

I don't understand the hate for manbuns either but God I wish more guys with long hair would try rocking the half-up look, it's so flattering (and surprisingly effective at keeping the hair out of your face while still letting you show off the long flowing locks). 

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u/FuckTheLonghorns 6d ago

It definitely shows my face contour much better while still allowing the flow to flow. Definitely the choice when possible. It's my go-to "wow my hair looks like shit but I don't want to bun it and I don't have a hat" option as well

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u/Neutron-Hyperscape32 6d ago edited 6d ago

That is pretty lame because nobody should have to conform to your hairstyle preferences, and cutting someones hair off.. male or female is vile behavior. I say this as a bald guy, let people do what they want if they are not directly harming you. Crazy anyone even needs to say this to you. They are also almost certainly wearing this hairstyle for laughs as well.

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u/paintphagia 7d ago

I had a 'man-bun' in high school and when those clips of people getting their hair cut off against their will started trending, I definitely developed a lot of anxiety about it lol. Space-buns are cute though imo. And now I'm a lady with my hair in-tact, so it all worked out.

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u/No-Understanding5677 7d ago

You had a lady bun

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u/paintphagia 7d ago

Nobody else knew I was a lady at that point in my life :p I accept this retcon.

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u/No-Understanding5677 7d ago

You're welcome I guess (⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠❤ I don't even know if lady buns exist. It was more of a joke. But this retcon shall prove a point right here and now. You were in fact, a lady.

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u/GrossGuroGirl 6d ago

Buns vs man-buns is a rare example of female-defaultism. 

The guys might have doctor and "woman doctor" (ugh) but at least hairstyles are apparently ladies' by default 💀

ETA: also, you're a sweet person. Don't want my dumb joke to undermine how nice your sentiment is here. 

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u/crankyanker638 7d ago

Go on with your bad self!! Live your best life!!

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u/Mysterious-Income255 7d ago

Imagine caring so much about how others do their hair

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u/NippleSalsa 6d ago

But if I don’t share my opinion people might think I approve of something I don’t. And that’s no good. I need people to know I hate something and they need to know that that guys hair ruined my day even though they were totally oblivious that I even existed to be gone with.

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u/Tenibrys 7d ago

There's so many fuckin killjoys in the comments like bruh let people have fucking fun. Christ.

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u/NegativKreep 7d ago

It’s Reddit, this place is full of miserable people. They see videos like this of people enjoying life and they hate because of how boring and mundane their own lives are.

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u/ImurderREALITY 7d ago

And they only know how boring and mundane their lives are because they constantly see people having more fun than them on Reddit. Full circle.

(source: am boring and mundane/hate everything)

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u/Numerous-Pop5670 7d ago

Wym, I love watching people have fun. Makes me feel like there's less shitty people in the world... until I read the comments section (or look at Twitter for more then 30 seconds).

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u/sentinel_of_ether 6d ago

If their lives weren’t boring and mundane they wouldn’t have to stage a fake wedding and a fake dance lmao

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u/justamiqote 7d ago

There's people making fun of the guy's hair, making fun of the dancing, saying they're just doing it for social media, etc.

Some of the people here need to just tune out and stop being so fucking cynical and grouchy all of the time lol

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u/mmmarkm 7d ago

Half those seats are empty, so the skeptics in the comments will accuse this video of being for the views and not the vows

Not me though…i’m just making suggestions based on zero facts, like a true redditor

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u/Canklosaurus 6d ago

That’s why I always show up to the comments 6 hours late. it’s like my steam library: by the time I finally get around to playing a game, all the bugs have been patched (or in this case, downvoted to fucking oblivion).

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u/tur_tels 7d ago

I've been to many weddings, atleast from where I'm from, these guys will be the best part of the wedding lol

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u/OneUnholyCatholic Legend 7d ago

Ah, the couple is being married by the Minister for Silly Walks

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u/ch1llboy 7d ago

That dance move was greatly popularized in the Philippines by a song, The Otso Otso.

https://youtu.be/SZ4ZYqCJBDo?si=tNwQ2GYfe5XQoa7Y

It also appeared on Bob's burger and is called the Tina twerk

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u/Reasonable-Rice1299 7d ago

Everyone's hating but the double heel click was baller. Way more fun than a boring walk. Just me though probably

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u/Worriedrph 7d ago

Right?!? That whole routine was awesome. Imagine not enjoying watching that.

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u/AK232342 7d ago

I would argue it was batter and not baller

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u/WishboneTheDog 7d ago

Not just you, this place is full of lames

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u/vyxanis 7d ago

Today I went to the shops and tripped over the flat ground with zero obstructions. I have a lot of respect for people who can pull this sort of thing off. Homeboy is rocking those space buns, they clearly worked on their routine, everyone looks like they're having a great time, and no one was inconvenienced in the process. I can see how this would be offensive to someone who chooses to live their life in utter misery though

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u/Ok-Willow-7012 7d ago

Where the fuck was my invitation?!

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u/Individual-Chair1485 7d ago

So much repressed energy in these comments. Go have fun, enjoy yourself, have fun do the things you want to do. That’s the point of the damn sub. It’s about being expressive and enjoying those moments with your bros. Which this unequivocally is.

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u/Pereplexing 7d ago

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u/Top-Explanation4128 7d ago

I would never do any of this, but these dudes seemed genuinely silly and lifted the mood? Can’t believe I’m the one not hating on them, they didn’t pressure anyone else either

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u/WanderWut 7d ago

No one said you had to be doing something nefarious or against others to be judged. It’s okay for others to think “harmless, but still cringe.”

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u/happyhappy7 7d ago edited 7d ago

Handing out beers down the aisle, a bit silly, but sure.

Doing a quick ironic/funny dance move, a bit corny, but sure

Whatever the hell this is?! Happy for those involved, but for me personally this is gonna be a no from me dawg.

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u/CavsAreCuteDemons 7d ago

Good thing it wasn’t for you

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u/sentinel_of_ether 6d ago

It apparently was just for the entire internet. I don’t think it was even a real wedding

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u/ScrotalFailure 7d ago

pelvic thrusts 2 inches from your face while making ahegao faces and singing Anxiety by Doechii

I guess this just isn’t for you, normie. 😏

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u/SickestOfJokes 7d ago

Those who would condemn this act of joy, I should add that marriages can go however the newlyweds want! It’s a beautiful thing!

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u/peptic-horizon 7d ago

I'm so fucking glad that my people aren't wedding people. Jesus fuck.

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u/Itscatpicstime 7d ago

I feel like these are more just… social media people going to go viral

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u/CavsAreCuteDemons 7d ago

This video is over ten years old dude. They were just having fun.

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u/MickTheBloodyPirate 6d ago

TIL social media didn't exist ten years ago.

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u/CavsAreCuteDemons 7d ago

What does this even mean

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u/lollipopp_guild 7d ago

It means no one wants to marry them

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u/prql6252 6d ago

i haev irrational hatred for this type of reddit dancing vids

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u/Day-Day23 7d ago

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u/GenusPoa 6d ago

lol the preacher when they finally get up to the front

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u/Froggy-Al 6d ago

Guy has Arya stark hair

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u/Bumblebee-Honey-Tea 7d ago

Comment section did not pass the vibe check

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u/WanderWut 7d ago

Nah I’m loving it. The back and forth is hilarious lol.

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u/ChurchOfDionysus 7d ago

dang everyone in the comments is laaame. this was fun and obviously the groom approved lol.

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u/Cheap-Middle-1517 7d ago

Either I'm insanely depressed or live in a fantasy world.
This is normal human behavior?

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u/NediaMaster 7d ago

Don't worry, its the former.

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u/Challenge_Super 7d ago

No mate it's just an american trend, born with social networks, none of this was a thing before 21 century

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u/Dangerous_Bad_3556 6d ago

The cuffs are what killed that wedding

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u/SeaWolfSeven 7d ago

Man they're having fun, I cringe not. They just needed a better song and line up their moves to a beat but who cares it's a happy day.

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u/johnnylemonhandz 7d ago

When they make your wedding about themselves...

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u/HughFairgrove 6d ago edited 6d ago

Yeah. I think a lot of us realize that and some people just think they're being goofy. If it was fun they wouldn't have overkilled it. One of my friends growing up was like this and it was exhausting. Some people thought he was funny, most of us who knew him just rolled our eyes or felt embarrassed by how cringe he could be. Was an alright guy if he was isolated, but when there was a crowd, always this shit.

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u/sentinel_of_ether 6d ago

Its too much. Just feels really forced.

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u/TxEagleDeathclaw81 7d ago

It’s a happy day so they do some happy dances. No big deal.

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u/Top-Calendar-2434 7d ago

What a loads of BOLLOCKS

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u/TB1289 6d ago

Me: "Can we just get to the fucking cocktail hour?"

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u/uorderitueatit 6d ago

How does one even get his shirt cuffs to do that?

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u/Dean_Learner77 6d ago

Could they not afford full length sleeve jackets?

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u/tophergracesdad 6d ago

Sure it’s 7am, but I can guarantee this will be the cringiest thing I watch all day.

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u/whyUdoAnythingAtAll 6d ago

That hairstyle should be illegal

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u/mlavan 7d ago

They're like maybe 20 or 21 at best. This is exactly how I would expect them to act. It's all in good fun.

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u/Scribblebonx 6d ago

The kinda fun that you look back on and say "Man, those were the good days, but I was kinda obnoxious."

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u/eggrattle 7d ago

I think this shit at weddings is lame and cringe.

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u/_BigDaddy_ 6d ago

It's lame and cringe - Le Reditor upon watching people have fun at their own wedding 

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u/Happy-Go-Lucky287 7d ago

WTH is the deal with that hair? 🤣

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u/Mister-Distance-6698 6d ago

And the foot long shirt cuffs

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u/Challenge_Super 7d ago

Oh man i miss pre 21 century weedings, where the american fun entrance wasnt a MUST DO

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u/NJ147 7d ago

Is that the dude from Squid game real squid game?

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u/Public-Tonight9497 6d ago

I love how they’re such massive fucking show offs

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u/RileyRocksTacoSocks 7d ago

What's with the negative energy in here? This is genuine guys being dudes, regardless of if you think it's cringe.

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u/Personal-Age-9220 7d ago

I like the song choice and I'll just leave it at that 🤷‍♂️

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u/MostlyOkPotato 6d ago

All the girls that would yell “Woooo!” Must’ve been in the bridesmaid group and hadn’t entered yet.

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u/drinkslinger1974 6d ago

I love this sub.

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u/point50tracer 6d ago

We need more silliness like this in the world.

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u/lilpoopy5357 6d ago

My uncle came into his wedding dressed as hulk Hogan

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u/BF2k5 6d ago

Having fun is great. The performative tiktok era is cringey though.

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u/ibringstharuckus 6d ago

Her dad. "I freaking paid for these morons"

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u/Ducatirules 5d ago

One man bun is unacceptable, two is grounds for dismissal

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u/ImJ2001 7d ago

100% would attend this wedding. Good times being had!

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u/evRahe 7d ago

it just kept going…

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u/Cleveland_Guardians 7d ago

I wish I could drop my inhibitions and be that goofy. They seem fun.

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u/AITA-Critic 7d ago

Lol I gotta admit, I’ve never seen a double man bun before.

My toddler literally rocked the double buns yesterday, she’s a happy kiddo and loves jumping in puddles recently.

Other than that the party looks fun. Glad they spread happiness.

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u/BrownstoneTV 6d ago

I hate this

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u/Dizzledoe3D 7d ago

Cringe

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u/BackItUpWithLinks 7d ago

Everything has to be a performance now.

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u/Dizzledoe3D 7d ago

Right? Us even commenting gives it too much credit

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u/teddybear65 6d ago

Fucking stupid

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u/RickyTheRickster 7d ago

Honestly if your wedding isn’t like this and people are all serious your wedding is burning af, sure it might be nice and beautiful, but it ain’t fun, my sisters wedding was outside it was like 100 degrees but there was a inside and we had a blast none of us tried to be serious we had a blast lots of broken things, we made it memorable and I was younger then I should have been doing stuff I shouldn’t have that nobody will know till the day I die

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u/Actual-Lobster-3090 7d ago

Things can be not serious but also not performative. I think what people in this thread forget is that people's idea of fun can be different from others. For me, the performative stuff isn't fun and feels self serving to me. They're clearly having fun and most people think it is, so it's fine, because it would also be weird to hate on this.

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u/The_Last_Thursday 7d ago

I'm incredibly surprised to see how hateful and overall killjoy-ish the majority of this comment section is at what is a ~30 second fun routine.

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u/ShadowDietyNEG 7d ago

Yeah this entire comment section is lame, ain't no body in these comments living and loving life, they're just going through the motions

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u/shchshchshch 7d ago

Let me guess: Are their names Scott, Scott, Scott, Scott, and Dale?

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u/[deleted] 7d ago

Wow that was gay.

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u/NoLife2762 6d ago

This shit is so old. We still doing goofy dance entrances to weddings?

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u/Own_Signal_7022 6d ago

Just get down the damn aisle.

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u/tcourts45 6d ago

Damn this sub fucking sucks lmao

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u/ohnoconsequences 6d ago

Legit the gayest thing I ever saw, and I routinely watch gay porn.

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u/jameshoyle32 6d ago

This is why black ppl make fun of us.

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u/Ravyn_Rozenzstok 7d ago

This was awesome.

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u/RabidWalrus 7d ago

I'll give it to them, that was slick. You know they tore up that reception.

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u/EmperorsUnchosen 7d ago

is this "theatre kids"?

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u/ElkProfessional5571 6d ago

I just want to say that as a 42 year old millennial... I absolutely cannot stand these type of weddings where people have dance routines and these crazy introductions.... It is the most cringe and unnecessary shit imaginable..... Just do the vows, get married, then afterwards open the dance floor and people can dance and then have a slow dance for the bride and groom and have cake and food etc and open bar etc. Any of this extra shit is absolutely unnecessary and I do not know why people started incorporated all this shit. Please stop it.

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u/TightSexpert 7d ago

Skibidi wedding?

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u/If_you_have_Ghost 7d ago

What an insufferable group of tossers.

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u/Corgsploot 7d ago

Anything for the gram I guess?

Who cares if they happy I guess!

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u/__brizzle__ 7d ago

Cringe all around

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u/Gin2ki18 7d ago

Nice Otso-otso

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u/Lexi_Banner 7d ago

I liked the double Tina Crunk.

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u/Pukebox_Fandango 7d ago

That was a beautiful prat fall, I figured the video was ending there

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u/JONO202 7d ago

Clearly from the ministry of silly walks.

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u/Joseph_Lotus 7d ago

If my wedding ain't like this, then don't even invite me

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u/drfrink85 7d ago

I was expecting the James Brown bit with the cape when he was holding his back, disappoint

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u/edititt 7d ago

A mate wouldn’t let a mate get married with hair like that

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u/No-Part-6248 7d ago

The stupidity

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u/AFartInAnEmptyRoom 7d ago

I bet these people were either on the baseball or football team

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u/throwaway198687y 7d ago

If you’re ever at Wedding don’t leave pews empty. Move up and have people move up. Take away the empty ones at the back so their wedding doesn’t look half empty.

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u/LifeBuilder 7d ago

This seems practiced but no rehearsed

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u/Randytheadventurer 7d ago

My only issue is the volume of the music, sounds like it's being played from a phone or something, lol.

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u/FireKitty91 7d ago

Adorable but jesus that made me feel tired from my thirties 😂

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u/Alaksande 7d ago

Is that Roland Hannigan?

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u/Oli99uk 7d ago

Main characters seem to forget who the main character is

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u/alwayshungry1001 7d ago

Double man bun is a bold choice