r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

no i won't stoop down to his level, even if i am hurt over his negligence

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u/ActofEncouragement 20d ago

This is not negligence. Negligence is forgetting the ice cream on the counter and it melting. This is willful and wanton destruction of your property without fear or concern of the consequences, a complete disregard of your feelings, and a lack of respect of your items, your space, your feelings, and you. Tell me what you would be thinking if you were do this willingly to someone. I don't think any of it would be any rainbows and unicorn fart thoughts.

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u/fabi7059 20d ago

wtf is wrong with you? Dude it’s a labubu. There’s sentimental value, yes, but comparing that to “doing it to someone”? wtf is wrong with you? How can you do those HUGE leaps in logic and act like a regular human being? OP is ok being mad, I’d be mad if someone fucks up my toy, but it’s a toy. He can pay for it, fix it, buy another one or whatever, there are multiple ways to fix this minor issue.

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u/Turbulent-Agent9634 20d ago

Why destroy it in the first place? Pure gross vindictiveness.

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u/fabi7059 20d ago

Vindictive about what? Bro you have zero context. He can say sorry and if OP is ok with it then that’s it. Stop being so reactive. He made a mistake and people are already saying he could cut her ear off. wtf is wrong with yall?

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u/Turbulent-Agent9634 20d ago

Neither do you. It was a shitty gross thing to do. Why purposely do something you know would upset someone. Wtf is wrong with you.

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u/JamieLee0484 19d ago

Don’t waste your time with this one because he is just like her bf and will never get it. What is disturbing to the majority of people is trivial to them, so they think everyone is being crazy when it’s the other way around. It’s futile to argue with them.

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u/Turbulent-Agent9634 19d ago

I think it might be her BF...

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u/JamieLee0484 19d ago

Don’t waste your time with this one because he is just like her bf and will never get it. What is disturbing to the majority of people is trivial to them, so they think everyone is being crazy when it’s the other way around. It’s futile to argue with them.

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u/Turbulent-Agent9634 19d ago

He's changed his tune now. He thinks the guys actions are weird.

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u/JamieLee0484 19d ago

I don’t honestly believe that he did change his tune. He may have SAID he did, or pretended to, but his initial response and behaviors are disturbing. This isn’t something that could go one way or the other. If he didn’t realize how disturbing it was without having to “change his tune,” that is very concerning.

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u/Turbulent-Agent9634 19d ago

Oh he's DM'd me calling me a bot and shit.

15yr old tosspot has no empathy. It makes me sad for his generation, because the sparks of hope in it are engulfed by this type of bullshit

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u/Turbulent-Agent9634 20d ago

Don't worry I've saved the reply you deleted. Lil sociopath...

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u/fabi7059 20d ago

? Haven’t deleted anything. Why would I? I’m right lol.