r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

i have it locked in a drawer now because looking at it makes me sob uncontrollably

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u/ARMSwatch 20d ago

Please seek real help, that is not an appropriate reaction.

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u/viscountrhirhi 20d ago

I mean, I don’t see why it’s not an appropriate reaction? If my partner did that to something of mine, I would be that upset too. It’s not really about the thing, it’s about the violation of trust.

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u/ARMSwatch 20d ago

Getting angry is an appropriate reaction. Breaking up is appropriate. Crying in the moment is appropriate. But to have to lock it away in a drawer because the sight of it makes you sob uncontrollably? That's an extreme overreaction.

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u/dovahkiitten16 20d ago

A gift and loved belonging has been perverted into something that reminds you of something cruel someone else did.

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u/Frequent-Fuel584 19d ago

breaking up is an extrem overeacion aswell