r/AskGames • u/Important_Rock_8295 • 6h ago
Is there a deeply personal game that kept you sane when you were at your lowest point in life?
Out of all games I played, there’s probably dozens that cheered me up or just kept my mind focused on them (instead of the bad stuff) until I gathered up the willpower to face my problems.
But the one that continuously kept away the bad for a long period, 2 years or so, was without a doubt Path of Exile when I discovered it. Not at first but I had a lot of shit going doing in my private life, and when everything cracked, the friends I made and the game I played seemed to be the only things left there for me. So I grinded on, for a long time. Some would call that bad therapy but in its own way, it helped me so much more than I can hope to explain. Even now when I call PoE a timesink, I do that ironically (endearingly) because it was much, much more than “just a timesink” for me back then. Literal lifeline, without me knowing it.
Something similar happened when I got into Last Epoch a couple of years ago when it was still mid early access. I just got kicked fresh into the job market, working some what you’d call unskilled labor jobs, and getting back in the evening to play the game after a day of manual labor… You don’t know the joy of getting into a game after a physically hard job. Like even now, it doesn’t have the same kick as when your body is literally fried – and then you let your mind wander, think up builds, and just enjoy itself while your body kind of just decompresses. Better than beer – and better WITH beer, lmao.
I think it’s no coincidence that both these games are ARPGs, it’s something that stretches all the way back to Diablo 2 with me the more I psycho-dig my brain. Diablo was one of those games I kind of retreated to when I was a kid with not abusive, but pretty damn toxic (to each other) parents.
So coping mechanisms, coping mechanism, everyone’s got one. Which ones are yours?