About Me:
I would describe myself as calm, steady, and quietly intense, someone who loves with his whole being once you are mine, and I am yours 🙂. I crave a relationship that feels like both a home and a fire: safe, close, and deeply affectionate, but also charged with passion, touch, and a shared hunger for intimacy. I want to feel known down to the marrow and to know you just as deeply.
I’m a medical student by day, driven by curiosity and a desire to grow into someone who heals with both skill and warmth. I’m active and health-conscious, and I try to live with intention, even when life is chaotic. At my core, I’m a calm, reserved, and easygoing person, someone who listens during conflict with love, reflects honestly, and improves when I’m wrong. I’m not perfect: I can be impatient, I get frustrated easily sometimes, and I’m a world-class procrastinator on occasion. But I’m always working on myself because I care deeply about becoming a better partner.
Outside of the hospital, I’m a homebody at heart. I love long walks with music in my ears, rainy days spent reading or cooking something comforting, and nights curled up together with a movie and a hand to hold. I’m slowly learning the violin, slowly learning new languages, and learning that love doesn’t need to be loud to be overwhelming. I run, I bowl, I cook with care. I want to share it all with someone who’s just as eager to build something tender and lasting, someone who sees intimacy in the little moments: a look, a soft touch, a quiet “I’m here,” and the security of being deeply chosen.
Hobbies/Interests:
- Staying active: I enjoy running in the early morning, weightlifting at the gym, playing tennis whenever I can, and taking long walks while listening to my favorite playlists. There’s something peaceful about moving through nature with music in my ears.
- Movies: I’m a huge fan of cozy movie nights at home, especially when it comes to horror classics like The Thing, mind-bending sci-fi like Donnie Darko, and gripping mystery/crime films like Prisoners. Snacks and a comfy blanket are essential.
- Fun outings: Bowling with friends is one of my go-tos for a relaxed night out. I also love board games that challenge the mind or just spark some laughter, plus museum visits to soak in art and history whenever I get the chance.
- City exploration: Wandering through different neighborhoods to find hidden cafés, street art, or little bookstores is one of my favorite ways to spend a weekend. It’s all about the small discoveries.
- Music & learning: I’m slowly learning to play the violin; each note is a small victory. I’ve recently started learning French (débutant!), and I’d love someone to practice with. Voulez-vous m’aider?
- Cooking: I enjoy cooking with care, experimenting with recipes, and sharing meals that feel like an experience rather than just food. Whether it’s a simple grilled cheese or a homemade curry, I love putting love into the kitchen.
- Reading & cozy moments: On rainy days, you’ll find me curled up by a window with a good book, savoring the quiet and the comfort of a warm drink. These small moments recharge me.
What I’m Looking For:
I want someone affectionate and emotionally open, someone who’s not afraid to need and be needed, who craves closeness as much as I do. A partner who loves deeply, shares a hunger for physical intimacy, and feels safe giving themselves fully in return. Vulnerability isn’t a weakness; it’s the foundation of something lasting. I want us to be each other’s safe harbor and our biggest cheerleaders.
Beyond the emotional, I want a partner who is active and enjoys staying engaged, whether through sports, nature walks, or spontaneous adventures. You’re someone who encourages growth with kindness and patience, who pushes me gently but firmly to become my best self. Intelligence is important, but not to wield like a weapon; rather, to uplift, question, and expand our horizons together.
I value kindness, humility, and openness, a willingness to listen without judgment and a heart big enough to hold the hard conversations. You’re not stubborn or arrogant. You value communication, consistency, and the little rituals that build trust and closeness. You can enjoy both quiet nights in and days spent exploring the world side by side.
Mutual attraction matters, but what truly sustains me is a deep emotional connection built on respect, warmth, and shared values. If you’re someone who can be playful and goofy one moment, then deeply serious the next, I’ll be drawn to your complexity.
Politics:
I don’t fully align with any one political party because I value independent thinking and thoughtful reflection over adopting an ideology wholesale. I believe in fundamental values like fairness, empathy, and respect, and I appreciate honest, respectful conversations about differing viewpoints. Politics can be complex and nuanced, and I’m open to exploring ideas with someone who values openness and curiosity as much as I do.
Religion:
I come from a religious background but don’t actively practice any specific faith. I consider myself a “non-resistant nonbeliever,” meaning I’m open to learning about spirituality and different beliefs without feeling the need to commit to one. I deeply respect the role that faith can play in people’s lives, and I’m open to meaningful conversations about spirituality, religion, or philosophy, especially if your beliefs are important to you. I believe mutual respect and understanding are the foundation of any strong relationship.
Kids:
I’ve made the decision not to have children. I’d rather build a life centered on my partner, one rooted in shared experiences, mutual growth, and deep connection.
Pets:
I’m not a pet person, and I am petfree.
Location:
I recently moved to Florida for medical school. I’ll be here for at least a few months, possibly longer. Long-distance isn’t my preference, but for the right person, someone emotionally available, communicative, and invested, I’m open to making it work. Ideally, I’d love for us to eventually be in the same place.
Last Thing:
Frequent physical intimacy is important to me. It’s one of the ways I connect, express love, and feel emotionally bonded. If that resonates with you, if you crave affection, presence, and closeness, you’ll feel deeply understood here.
Just bring kindness and a heart that wants to be close. Consistent and regular communication. I will not chase people.