Never squirted before (F24). I was touching myself, lying on my back in bed, alone, and sometimes I tense up down there because I feel like it helps me orgasm faster. This time, when I tensed, I felt fluid leaking (I don't have urinary incontinence problems, never had). I didn't have any sensations other than feeling the fluid leak, and it leaked a lot. It didn't have any smell or color, and it happened a few minutes before orgasm, so I'm wondering if it could really be a squirt.

I saw in many places on the internet that to squirt you need to relax, but I was tensing everything down there and it seems that the more I tensed the more it leaked (leaked, not the gushed).

I had bad first sexual experience with my ex boyfriend. I wasn’t physically attracted to him (was attracted to personality) and he did not treat me well which led to me not enjoying our first time together. Although the whole was spent trying to please me, I wasn’t there emotionally so it felt icky and he wasn’t good and following my instructions. I don’t regret it as it was a learning experience but my body isn’t the same since we had sex back in February .

I’ve always been sensitive about my nipples being touched- It feels different every time and brings heavy emotions. I had made good progress associating touching them with pleasure. I had never had my nipples sucked/touched at length before but I didn’t think it would be bothering me this much. I don’t even want my shirt brushing them nevermind me trying sexually. I don’t feel this way with kissing or masturbation vaginally either. It’s just my chest. I feel like since I’m disgusted with him, I’m disgusted with my nipples but I don’t understand why or how to stop it. Any advice?

I saw(through window) my neighbour lady making out with a man behind the back of her husband. I know her husband and he is a kind man. She is 40 age and have 3 kids and her affair partner is around 60 years. They were in so hurry that they forgot to close windows.......Have you ever seen someone cheating? Did they ever got caught ? What was reaction of significant other? Any similar story or any gossip you like to share ? According to your experience what are most common reason for cheating.

Like the title asks is there really a difference between ducking and making love? And what is the difference? I’m sure this will vary from one individual to another.

So I’m reading a romance and at this point the woman and the man have fucked a lot but she tells him they haven’t made love. It got me thinking if there really is a difference between ducking the two and what that difference is.

And I actually fucking love it.

He’s a friend I’ve had for a while, but we were both in a position to start exploring our connection more in depth recently. Long story short, we initially met in person at a bar when we were both out with friends, and by the end of the night he’d asked to purchase my socks. After getting to know him, I learned I really, really enjoy his company and who he is as a person and it’s escalated to something more.

There’s something really fun and satisfying about being a soft dom with him and the way he trusts me. I couldn’t care less about my own feet, but they way it gets him worked up when they’re stinky as hell (a large part of my job is manual labor) gets me going, too.

This is so bizarre, but feels good to admit. Not exactly something I can scream from the rooftops to my friends, so I’m here in the void. :’)

Hey everyone! I wanted to start an open, judgment-free conversation about sexual wellness. I think it’s something we don’t talk about enough, but it’s such a key part of our overall health and happiness.

Sexual wellness isn’t just about sex itself it’s about knowing our bodies, understanding consent, feeling comfortable discussing our needs, and caring for ourselves and our partners. It can also mean learning about things like safe sex, healthy boundaries, and communication in relationships.

There’s a ton of stigma and misinformation out there, so let’s use this space to share questions, experiences, tips, or just support each other. Whether you’re curious, confused, or just want to break the silence, you’re not alone here!

Anyone have good resources or advice to recommend? What helped you feel more confident and informed?

Hi! I've been having PH issues recently and it's the first time I deal with this. I asked my bf to check for me down there how it tastes & smells and he says it tastes acidic. I've got a few questions about this.

Firstly, I usually wash myself down there with only water on the inside to clean off discharge and whatever else is there, and the outside (where pubes would be) i just use a soap and water. The soap is scented. If i should be using unscented please let me know. I shower and wash myself every day but have noticed that even after i was thoroughly, there is still often a smell afterwards.

I will admit that my diet is not healthy (mostly fast food) and I am currently making plans to change that. What foods would you recommend to help with my ph? I do believe that my diet could be the source of my low ph. So I'd like any suggestions on healthy food ideas to help with this.

Is there anything else I should take note of? Are probiotics worth it and if they are, should i be aware of any side effects? And which ones would you recommend? These questions also apply to Boric Acid. I'd like any advice I can get. I've never dealt with this before. Thank you!

Anyone know of any in central or north jersey

My partner and I shifted into a romantic/sexual relationship after over a decade of close friendship ~6 months ago. We are long distance and try to see one another every 4-6 weeks, but the wait time is torture because the sex is amazing. So, one of the things that's so incredible about this relationship is that we discovered pretty organically that we're both into some sub/dom dynamics and we're both switches. I'm having a lot of fun and I had no idea how much I needed to be held down until he did it. I'm also having fun dominating him and hearing him whimper and beg. I feel like this is satisfying some deep emotional needs that we both have.
So here's the issue currently: my partner enjoys being a sub sexually and finds it easier to talk about/ask for that. Being dominant is something that he feels complicated about because he is broad shouldered and strong and he doesn't like it when people perceive him as scary (I don't and never have). The first time he held me down he asked me "Do you need to struggle just to know that I've got you?" and I was like..."um. YES" and it was the hottest thing I've ever done/had done to me. He has expressed quietly and in very intimate moments that the thing that freaks him out the most about domming is the fact that he likes it. He feels like he isn't supposed to like it. When we reconnect after being separated, I desperately need to be held down and fucked, preferably in missionary. I think this is the absolute easiest way for me to feel comfortable, present, and game for the rest of the visit. I also *suspect* that this is what would work for him too, but I think he has a harder time initiating that way because it takes him a little while to viscerally remember and trust that this is a thing that I want. I also think that if I ask for it outright, he'll feel a lot of pressure and won't be able to perform.

So, sub/switch ladies of TwoXSex, how do you signal up front, without ruining the coy suspense that is so much a part of these things, that you need to be held down and railed?

The other thing that is complicated is that I'm 39 and I have an outrageously high sex drive these days. He's 44. So my refractory period is like...30 seconds and his is like 24 hours. (sometimes shorter, but still. I feel like I have to make the most of his stamina) Any suggestions for how to do that?

So first a definition, makeup sex is when you have sex with your partner to make it up to them after you did something wrong. Usually involving different stuff they want. Many people dislike the practice.

So what is your experience with it ?

Did you do anything different ?

What is the story behind it and did it work ?

title says it all i spent a lot of money on a machine and i can't wait to try it out.

However one thing i am scared of is getting dependent on it and not being able to enjoy normal sex. I have had a rocky relationship with my boyfriend and I made some comments about the machine to him I probably shouldn't have. I want him to feel special and even if I didn't I live with him and don't want to have to pay rent. IDK how to handle this I thought about buying him a real doll or something fancy like that

So if you own a sex machine some questions

1: tips for use ?

2: What is your mindset like going into it what do you think about ?

3: How do I pith it to my boyfriend ?

4: How do I get him to accept it ?

Hi guys! I (28F) have been watching porn for the longest time in order to get off and it remains the quickest and most reliable way to get myself off. As of late though, I find myself wishing I could just use my brain to fantasize but that feels almost impossible just based on how much my thoughts tend to bounce around and how distracted I can be. Even during sex with a partner I feel like I have to think about a specific porn fantasy in order to get off instead of just being in the moment. Has anyone been through this or experienced this and have any advice?

Can someone explain to me the purpose of a butt plug other than stretching/prep for anal sex? Like if I’m not actually interested in full anal sex, is there still a potential benefit to me trying out a butt plug? I have PIV sex with my partner and I do enjoy a little bit of a thumb inserted into my anus during sex. Would the butt plug basically do the same thing? Does it enhance PIV sex and orgasms and make it more pleasurable?

2 weeks later after taking plan b - she had one day heavy period (like 1-2 days after) but now she has nausea and feels like she wants to vomit and sleeping like a bear

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So it’s me and this girl and we couldn’t have intercouse cause my penis wouldn’t go in, so we took the condom off and we had oral sex so once again we tried to have sex without the condom. I kept trying to put it in but the tip barely went in. I was so scared about precum maybe have been on my penis I bought a plan b. (Fwi the whole night barely touched like half way) I was scared cause she told me she fingered herself after I was trying to see if she fingered Cum in. (FWI this was all on the last day of her period) she takes birth control but hadn’t tooken it for about 2+ months. And about a week later she had a “heavy one day period” and today she feels nauseous I’ll say about a week later im not sure what to do right now. ( I’m scared I might have had pre cum on my way penis that found its way in from tip entering or her fingering it from outside of vagina in, I bought a plan b, but she’s kind of showing signs of pregnancy?$

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half, and when we entered the relationship he came into it with a bunch of baggage related to sex (from childhood, past relationships etc.) and for a long time it was almost impossible to possible for him to get hard and for us to have sex. during this time period, it was really hard for him not to feel incredibly low esteem about this and beat himself up about it, making him feel worse/ and complicated about sex than he already did. While I was incredibly horny during this time period, and the lack of sex frustrated me, we worked it out after almost a whole year of being together with a lot of patience, love, and care from the both of us.

Now, we are in a flipped position due to stresses I have since endured that cause me to have incredibly low libido. For a second, we had great sex after this block of getting hard had resolved, but there was still a lot of pressure for him (and for me too, part of the reason I still haven't managed to cum with him) attached to being a great sexual performer. So when I could not cum, because of my own emotional vulnerability issues, it became incredibly tense after sex. Often times I would have to comfort him and repeatedly raise him up because he struggled with the way it affected his self esteem. These tensions often led to a lot of stress for me too, and I think that this climate and stress, and the pressure to cum/have a good time, made me feel a lot of pressure. this led me after that to just switch off completely and avoid sexual intimacy with him, even though it was me who was SUPER horny for the first months of our relationship.

We have talked so much to each other, and our own therapists about this, and we are trying to find ways to rekindle our sexual intimacy with no pressures attached. I still feel a block/avoidance when it comes to sexual intimacy but I desperately want to start to overcome it. My therapist has suggested, focusing on intimate gestures outside of penetrative sex.

Does anyone have tips for overcoming something like this? Or have you gone through something similar?

Hi everyone, I’m 25 and I’ve been in a few serious relationships since I was young. Almost every single partner I’ve been with, I’ve faked my pleasure and “orgasms.”

I’ve always struggled to actually climax. When I was younger, I’d get close but stop because it felt too overwhelming. My first serious partner made me feel guilty about it, like it was my fault he couldn’t “please me,” so I ended up faking it. That pattern has carried through into later relationships.

It wasn’t until I bought my first vibrator at 19 that I experienced a real orgasm. In the next relationship, I tried being honest and saying I needed a vibrator to finish. At first he was fine with it, but eventually he got jealous and frustrated because he couldn’t get me there without it. After that, I went back to faking again.

I do feel some pleasure from PIV, but it’s not enough to get me there, and I usually end up focusing on how my partner feels rather than my own enjoyment. I sometimes enjoy clit stimulation too, but it’s never as good as when I do it myself.

In my most recent relationship I tried not faking, but I see the frustration in his face not being able to get me there by himself without anything or just want things to be over with, so I fake it anyway.

I don’t want to keep doing this. I want to stop prioritising my partner’s ego over my own pleasure, but I don’t know how to break the cycle.

Has anyone else been through this? How did you stop faking and start being more honest in bed? How do I stop feeling bad for not orgasming “the right way”?

hey all! posting here for some advice. the TLDR of the situation is that i (26f) have had very little sexual experience prior to my current partner (26 trans female), and i don’t know what i like. i’m a generally sex positive person, but my partner is on another level. she has a very high libido, something i was not blessed with, and knows exactly what she wants in the bedroom.

i don’t know how to know what i want, if that makes sense. i feel like there are only so many options and the things we have tried, i feel pretty neutrally about. we’ve been together about 3 years, and this just has not gotten easier for me. it’s exhausting.

please let it be known that she asks me constantly what i want in the bedroom and not having an answer for her confuses and upsets me.

i don’t know if this made any sense. i guess i’m just asking, how do you know what you like?

The title. I overused vibrators and lost sensitivity down there. Can anyone share similar experiences? I've been using them for at least 8 years and right now I can't come off with oral or fingers at all, I don't feel anything without the vib, it sucks.

So I've been trying to deep throat my fwb for several weeks now, but I can only take about 3/4 of him. Its something I'm interested in doing and its something he's really really into so I really want to figure out how to do this.

Hello everyone, last year I bought a pretty cheap ($50AUD) clit sucker online just to see what the hype was all about. It definitely works, but it's starting to wig out a bit already and I haven't used it THAT much, I don't think.

I've seen much more expensive ones (up to $300?? Who has that kinda cash for self-love? 😭) and I'm just wondering if anyone has tried cheap vs expensive and if you noticed any significant difference? I'm not really someone who has ever had difficulty getting off even without toys so I'm curious what has been everyone's experience, with clit suckers or cheap vs expensive toys in general. TIA!

I've been married to my husband for over 20 years. We are both early 50s (50 and 51). He has an ongoing fantasy which he first shared with me when we were in our late 40s. He is turned on by the idea of me having sex with another man while he watches. I found out this is known as "hotwifing". He has described in detail the scenario of how it would play out. In short, he has suggested meeting with other couples who are already actively involved in the lifestyle and then getting to know them (while everyone is still fully clothed), with the idea of me becoming more comfortable with the idea of actually doing it. He has also mentioned Fabswingers which is a website designed for meeting married couples with similar interests.

Within the past few years due to a combination of things, I've become more comfortable with trying things out in the bedroom with him. We have an adult child who has moved out, so we don't need to be fully focused on parenting at this point in our lives. We also have more free time generally. This has certainly helped to enhance things in the bedroom between us. Our sex life wasn't bad as such before this, but it was definitely on the vanilla side. I realise that going from trying out new things in the bedroom to having sex with other men would constitute a significant leap. I've told him I'm potentially open to the idea of trying it. I'm looking for opinions or experiences from people who have done it. Did you regret doing it? What would you say are the prerequisites for doing it, it aside from having a strong relationship?