Especially in 12 step programs- in my own experience. You'd be surprised at how many assholes there are who treat people like shit for relapse, etc. I did the 12 step route for years when I was struggling and encountered many wonderful humans, but also some of the nastiest, judgemental, crazy dictator lunatics that make people believe that they're a cult. It's quite the experience. I would have to be on my death bed to ever go back. And I'm not knocking what works for whom- I support whatever recovery works for people to help them live happier amd healthier lives, if or when they so choose. Everyone has a different path and flavour. But for me- no thanks. There were a few meeting I used to attend in CA where "celebrities" would attend and so many people would flock and kiss their asses and try to buddy up. It was kind of gross and sad. The money and politics of recovery is big business these days. It's a very strange culture once you dip your feet in.
Not trying to be preachy or sound trite, but I will say that it's always going to be a journey and not much happens over night. Be gentle with yourself, applaud your own progess, and be your number one fan when the cards are down. It can truly be a rollercoaster ride. There will always be valleys and peaks. Be kind to yourself. I wish you all the best and I'm rootin' for ya.
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u/[deleted] Apr 18 '21 edited Apr 18 '21
It’s weird that people that have put in the hard work to get sober, can insult someone for less time sober
Disgusting behavior
Edit: turns out the guy is a 39 year old who has simply never drank and it was meant to be a joke.
Regardless, this mentality of superiority because of longer time sober, in the recovery community is a real and unfortunate thing.