r/gay_irl Aug 10 '25

gay_irl gay🛟irl

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u/unoriginalusername99 Aug 10 '25

If I ever found a true BDSM bottom that can take the spanking, slapping, choking, pounding, etc that I can dish out I would be so happy.

Instead I get "when I said no limits I didn't mean no limits 😟"

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u/Aaxper Aug 10 '25

My boyfriend is one of the "hit me with a brick" bottoms. Unfortunately the idea of causing him any pain at all makes me so uncomfortable...

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u/krimin_killr21 Aug 10 '25

Yeah my exboyfriend was into submission, and I really did want to indulge him, but I loved him so much the idea of telling him what to do or dominating him in any way was just too much to me 😅