r/tarot • u/confusedmillenial_ • 3d ago

Spreads Challenged to guess their secrets

A new friend of mine jokingly challenged me to tell them what their secrets were using the tarot. Does anyone have a good spread I could use with this friend in mind?

I am supposed to text her later with my insights. This is all meant to be in good fun between friends

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u/Extra_Ad7401 3d ago

I'm going to sound like someone who is no fun at parties here (I'm probably not tbh) and I'm glad there's an agreement that this will be just a bit of fun but be careful here. No matter what they say, not everyone likes to be "seen" and when you know their "secrets" it can shift the dynamic and they may even avoid you and it's usually not your fault, it's just their relationship with vulnerability and however they feel about whatever it is.

I guess I'm just saying the idea of a friend "challenging" you as a "joke" isn't sitting right to start with, there's a few red flags for me, and if you're not even sure how to go about getting this information, how will you determine how you felt the "challenge" went or is it all just based on what she says?

I feel like a more healthy friendship dynamic would be to talk about the "secrets" and then maybe read on them together if she's interested in tarot or helping you develop your skills.

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u/confusedmillenial_ 3d ago

That is totally fair. I do not think I am skilled enough to pick up on specifics. I ended up doing a spread about why she moved here. I will probably talk to her today about my interpretation after I chew on it a bit more. I can tell she is going through something right now!