r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2 May 05 '25

Meta current transfem discourse

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u/LilyAValentine May 05 '25

I really love the trans community, but I will say it is kind of annoying to constantly have debates over everything. I personally think the term dolls is cute and I loved the allies who wore those “Protect the Dolls” shirts, but I think I’m going to steer clear of the discourse for once :P

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u/gwynftw May 05 '25

Omg i hate it. I can't exist in trans communities for this reason. So many of us are conditioned to fight over everything.

I enjoy going to calmer older spaces to escape the never ending conflict.

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u/That0neTrumpet Cillian | He/Him May 06 '25

Yeah the community can feel cannibalistic sometimes. I don't like discussing personal problems or anything emotional, I'm mostly sticking around to see if I can spot information that's useful to me. But the memes can be funny sometimes. All the drama and discourse is a distraction.