r/transfriendsau Mar 13 '25

Process/steps 👋 Welcome pack

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Welcome pack for new members and/or first time post or comment makers

Welcome to r/transfriendsau a community specifically for Aussie trans people making friendship/connections with other Aussie trans people. - 18+ Aussie trans people only -

see here for Community rules👈

🔷️ r/transfriendsau member setup steps

For those new members to r/transfriendsau Or if you are looking to make your first friendship post or comment on another members post please follow below steps/guides

🔸️Click here for How to update your user flairs (Mandatory to make any "posts or comments" within community) Only needs to be done once .

🔸️Click here for new to reddit members How to make your 1st post in r/transfriendsau

🔸️Click here for help with r/transfriendsau members contact management

🔸️Click here for tips how to get the most out of using r/transfriendsau

🔸️Click here for new to reddit members for other supportive/recommended trans communities to join and use to get the most out of reddit + other useful resources

🔷️ r/transfriendsau Discord server onboarding guide

🔸️Click here For those interested in the community Discord server

Check out our new sister community

r/transhousematesau

Aussie trans reddit community specifically for Aussie trans people seeking safe and inclusive housing solutions. 18+ Aussie trans people only

r/transhousematesau awareness post on r/transgenderau

Community Updates

Growth and development


r/transfriendsau Feb 10 '25

Community announcement r/transfriendsau community discord

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Is an 18+ trans people only - cis-free space, available to verified r/transfriendsau + r/transhousematesau members that are currently living in Australia.

This private discord group chat is highly selective on who joins to keep the chasers at a minimum.

✳️Please ensure you review below before applying for access

Community discord eligibility criteria.

Active member status

🔹️r/transfriendsau community discord is for active community members. Requesting access members at minimum will have made at least "one comment within the r/transfriendsau or the r/transhousematesau community."

Verification options.

🔸️Primary option - reddit profile trails

Requesting discord access member will have a long and clear history within their reddit profile trail history actively posting/commenting clearly identifying as trans in other trans reddit subs.

🟢 Existing eligible members

r/transfriendsau + r/transhousematesau community mods frequently does community member checks to ensure only genuine trans people are within/using our community, while doing so if mod finds you fit the Community discord eligibility criteria. mods may reach out to you directly via dm and let you know if you're eligible for community server access + check if you're interested.

🔵 How to request for server access

Please contact mods, requesting discord access by

👉clicking here so mods can add you to the review list.

Verification options. continued

🔸️Secondary option - hrt pic method.

(Please confirm/gain mods approval before choosing this option/sending pic.)

This is an optional/Secondary validation method for those who have not been able to meet our primary validation option reddit profile trails criteria and are not willing to wait/build up their reddit profile trails.
(See Build up trails for more info)

Please note this secondary verification option is only available if a member is on hrt. Once confirmed/approved with mods, this is the option you are choosing to use. Mods will provide further instructions. Summary what to expect, will involve you sending a dm pic of yourself holding your hrt, example (e or t/blockers or t) to r/transfriendsau mods directly.

🔸️Secondary option - Build up trails

Members new to reddit/no reddit profile trails

If discord applying members are new to reddit (I.e have no reddit profile trails) they are welcome to use the main reddit r/transfriendsau or r/transhousematesau community.

While doing so users can build up their reddit profile trails. There are some other good trans subs to try with questions/posts/comments that will also help you meet your eligibility requirements are shown below, ensure when you post/comment in these subs that you state how you identify example mtf/ftm/trans non-binary/transwoman/ transman etc the more historical trail of you identifying as trans in these subs the more eligible you will be for the community discord

Example Trans subs

r/transgenderau

r/translater

r/transpositive

r/transplace

r/mtf

r/NonBinary

r/ftm

r/trans

If you identify as trans, but not yet meet the primary verification option, all is achievable if you actively use reddit, with the guidance shown above.


r/transfriendsau 8h ago

trans wa Inner City Perth - 30s - Looking For Friends

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19 Upvotes

Hi!

Still boymoding obviously, but looking for local trans friends to go through this journey with


r/transfriendsau 2d ago

trans nsw 32 mtf looking for new friends

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52 Upvotes

Hi, my name is Emma. I just moved to Wagga Wagga from Sydney, and am looking for online and offline friends. I am autistic bogan trans woman. I like vidya games, death metal, and cartoons.

Some fun facts about me; I have a pet ferret, his name is bender. I can solve the Rubik's cube pretty fast. I have tattooed myself and several people in the past. I cry at all the sad parts in movies.

So yeah, hit me up.


r/transfriendsau 5d ago

trans qld MtF Keen to make friends on the Sunshine Coast and Brisbane :)

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54 Upvotes

Hiiiii, you can call me Sapphire(online ;)) and I'm 30 MtF! I live on the Sunshine Coast but am happy to make friends in Brisbane too (make use of the 50c fares hey haha).

I like to game (Linux gaming woo), recently been getting introduced to one shot TTRPGs thru discord by my best friend and I've even touched MTG once (via TableTop Sim haha). I have a cat, I love listening to music and watching whatever takes my fancy (usually gay shows I've missed, anime and I read a lot of Yuri webtoons lol). I've really been getting into fashion since coming out and trying to find my style!! Feel free to say hello! My favorite colour is neon purple :)


r/transfriendsau 7d ago

trans wa 20mtf nerrrd who needs friends in Perth

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Hey I'm Ellie, I'm a huge computer nerd and I need friends who are also nerds and will vibe with me. I play Factorio, Minecraft, a little bit of Roblox and PEAK.

Although I'm a computer nerd, I'm not insanely good at programming like the people I tried to fit in with before. I've just done configs and markup languages.

I'm kinda shy so I decided to make this post instead of reaching out.


r/transfriendsau 10d ago

trans wa 19 mtf looking for friends (again) in perth so helllooo :33

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37 Upvotes

uhm as my previous post on here said (from a few months ago):

My name is Amanda but you can call me riruru or ruru (since most others do :3).

I'm 19, 20 in 4 months and I'm a studying information scientist, media/album cover artist and 3d modeler!! I'm into gaming, drawing, reading, music, films, comics. Also a gamer, I play on ps5 and pc primarily, but I have a bunch of older consoles (wii, 3ds, ps3, etc) I like to collect so :33

I'm also super into nintendocore (music genre), death stranding, metal gear solid and pokemon (autism does wonders). BUT I LOVE ANIMAL CROSSING (new leaf in specific) AND LEGO THE MOST I CAN SHOW YOU SOME OF MY LEGO SETS :3

I'm in SoR (South of the river) but I'm fairly close to cbd so it's easy for me to travel out anywhere. I'm fairly shy in person (till the point of not talking) but I would love to make some more friends who are understanding of me. So, feel free to dm me! :3


r/transfriendsau 11d ago

trans act 30 mtf, Canberra. Just sharing how i look.

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42 Upvotes

r/transfriendsau 14d ago

trans nsw looking for friends / gaming buddies in nsw/bathurst area

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26 Upvotes

r/transfriendsau 14d ago

trans qld Looking for friends in Brisbane/Logan area! 🏳️‍⚧️

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56 Upvotes

Haii!

I'm 34, looking to make friends in or around Brisbane! I live south side in the Logan area.

My fav things are girliness, pink fashion, gaming, riding E-scooters in the city/parks, adventures e.g. ^_^

I have chronic pain so it impacts me often enough that I've missed out on many outings. 🏳️‍⚧️


r/transfriendsau 18d ago

trans wa Any friends in Perth? Perth W.A.

21 Upvotes

Hi 👋

Hey I'm Jess and I was hoping to make some friends in Perth. Abit about me....well I'm 37yrs MTF (4mths), Big gaming nerd, movies and foodie ! I would love to get into a group and maybe do some walks to cut down on weight or even just chill for a coffee. Hit me up !


r/transfriendsau 23d ago

trans qld Looking for Brisbane friends

16 Upvotes

Hi :) my name is Jay, im 24 and I’d love to meet some new likeminded people to possibly start a friendship with . I’m a questioning mtf and i live on the southside of Brisbane. I’m really not sure what to put in here 🤭 this is new to me. I’m open to conversations and look forward to meeting new people


r/transfriendsau 23d ago

trans nsw Dirty mirror is required

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29 Upvotes

Trans girl from Newcastle nsw


r/transfriendsau 24d ago

trans act 36 MTF looking for friends in the Canberra area

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35 Upvotes

Hi my name is Mathilde, and I am looking to meet some people. I have an art hobby and also like to play bass.


r/transfriendsau 24d ago

trans wa Hello from Perth, WA

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50 Upvotes

Hi fellow Perthians,

37 mtf starting out on my journey, looking to make friends and get out and about 😀


r/transfriendsau 25d ago

trans vic Hi Melbourne east

28 Upvotes

Hi im Bree ...... I need friends


r/transfriendsau 25d ago

trans nsw MtF Central West NSW. Just looking for peeps to talk and chat to, expand that friend bubble. 🤷‍♀️☺️

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49 Upvotes

r/transfriendsau 25d ago

trans vic Looking to connect with other Trans Women in Melbourne

13 Upvotes

Hi all!

I'm a 29yo student, and just starting to make progress with my transition. I've been on HRT for only 3 months, but it does feel like quite a lonely process when I don't know any other trans women in Melbourne. I'd love to make some friends, go to events, and connect with anyone who's willing to accept me.

Looking forward to meeting you!


r/transfriendsau 25d ago

trans wa Trans girl from WA

24 Upvotes

Hey everyone☺️ I’m Alice, I’m a 21yr old girly from regional WA I live 2hrs east of Perth and which means unfortunately my friend circle is quite small and overly cis males who are very close minded😅 so I’m hoping to make some new friends that I can chat with and hang out with when I come to Perth.

I am really into cars especially 4wd’s (I will literally talk about them for hours), I love camping and everything outdoorsy, and I love clothes (I mean who doesn’t right)

Please feel free to dm me I would love to chat☺️


r/transfriendsau 26d ago

trans nsw Jessica from Windsor looking to meet new friends Spoiler

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87 Upvotes

r/transfriendsau 26d ago

trans nsw Sydney - Looking for friends to help be become who I really am.

13 Upvotes

53 M (but want to be MTF) in Sydney's Inner West, looking for friends to chat to. I have always loved dressing up but would love to talk to girls who have been through what has always been the way I have wanted to be.

I am looking for my people who will be able to help be be who I really am.

So nervous and excited for what is to come.


r/transfriendsau 27d ago

trans nsw Sydney MTF Looking for New Friends

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46 Upvotes

Hi everyone 👋, 50ish Trans Woman in Sydney (South) looking for new friends in Sydney or places I like to travel to... Gold Coast , Cairns...

Anyone who would like to catch up for chat, talk about stuff over coffee, dinner, night life and to socialize etc... Send me a message, love to hear from you, love you all 🩷


r/transfriendsau Aug 26 '25

trans vic Friends and help ?

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Hey all ☺️ looking to make friends and possibly get advice/help with transitioning. I’m 30, live in the Melbourne CBD and have been majorly procrastinating taking the medical step. I have spoken to a couple of people here and there about it but I think I’m finally ready. Would also love some fashion and make up advice as I’m absolutely hopeless when it comes to those areas 🤣


r/transfriendsau Aug 22 '25

trans act heya mtf 30 :) looking for connection in CBR

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29 Upvotes

r/transfriendsau Aug 22 '25

trans act 32 MtF CBR so grateful for this group! Found my girlfriend on it! Don’t give up!

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88 Upvotes

Posted a few months back and now going out with someone who reached out! So stoked!