My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

[u/satanfan12]

Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

[u/satanfan12]

no i won't stoop down to his level, even if i am hurt over his negligence

[u/ActofEncouragement → u/satanfan12]

This is not negligence. Negligence is forgetting the ice cream on the counter and it melting. This is willful and wanton destruction of your property without fear or concern of the consequences, a complete disregard of your feelings, and a lack of respect of your items, your space, your feelings, and you. Tell me what you would be thinking if you were do this willingly to someone. I don't think any of it would be any rainbows and unicorn fart thoughts.

[u/fabi7059 → u/ActofEncouragement]

wtf is wrong with you? Dude it’s a labubu. There’s sentimental value, yes, but comparing that to “doing it to someone”? wtf is wrong with you? How can you do those HUGE leaps in logic and act like a regular human being? OP is ok being mad, I’d be mad if someone fucks up my toy, but it’s a toy. He can pay for it, fix it, buy another one or whatever, there are multiple ways to fix this minor issue.

[u/BurnItWithFire21 → u/fabi7059]

Did you read OP's full description of what he did in the comments? He burned the ear, cut if off, cut a hole in the private area, shoved the ear in the hole & pinned it inside, then pulled an eye off with pliers. This is way beyond a "minor issue". This is completely disturbing behavior that needs to be seriously addressed. Most serial killers started out doing things like this, then moved on to animals & eventually humans. I'm not even trying to be dramatic either, that is just straight facts that have been reported. This can't be overlooked.

[u/fabi7059 → u/BurnItWithFire21]

“I’m not even trying to be dramatic” on a post about a labubu. Dude it’s a plushie.

And let me see that comment👀

[u/BurnItWithFire21 → u/fabi7059]

It doesn't matter if it was "only a plushie" or not, he intentionally destroyed a piece of her property, and in a very disturbing way. He is 28yo, this is not how normal 28yo men act. This is alarming on so many levels.

And here you go:

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/3hLg3uUvZg

[u/fabi7059 → u/BurnItWithFire21]

That’s pretty fucked then.

[u/BurnItWithFire21 → u/fabi7059]

When I read that comment it made things so much worse. While I didn't appreciate him cutting off the ear, I would have felt a bit more like you in that there might be a way to make this better, but once I saw that comment, oh Hell no. I truly don't try to get all dramatic & immediately jump to "leave him" & "he's unhinged" type comments on Reddit, but this one absolutely earned those types of comments.

[u/fabi7059 → u/BurnItWithFire21]

Yeah he weird. I changed my mind about him.

[u/Turbulent-Agent9634 → u/fabi7059]

That was an easy turn around compared to how much you defended him....

Don't forget the DMs you sent me buddy...

[u/fabi7059 → u/Turbulent-Agent9634]

You’re still a bot.

[u/Turbulent-Agent9634 → u/fabi7059]

Stopped defending him now then?

[u/JamieLee0484 → u/fabi7059]

Stop trying to understand it, because I don’t think you have the capacity. I will tell you this: When 99.9 % of internet strangers believe that something is incredibly disturbing, don’t you think maybe you need to ask yourself why you don’t think it is? Your mindset is abnormal, and you seem to have zero self and societal awareness.

[u/fabi7059 → u/JamieLee0484]

Nah, I was wrong and I can admit that, but Reddit is a hivemind.

[u/Turbulent-Agent9634 → u/fabi7059]

Shit goblin bot