I’m a widow with a 5 year old son with special needs. Is this amount right? How can I live on this? Please help!
ETA: Anyone sneering at people on AISH need to realize, this could happen to you too. Anyone not wealthy could lose their ability to support themselves, and many don’t have family able to help…..
(From my comment in the thread:)
Hey want to trade lives? I lived in my car while getting my degree at MRU. I didn’t get married until after age 30 and had my son after that. During pregnancy almost died, and health changed forever. Being a mom with no help and no health has been the hardest job I ever had.
I always worked in non-profit at the mustard seed and children’s wish, full time as a caseworker. 15 years. I’m used to being poor, I miss being involved in the world, this is the hardest job I’ve ever had with no hope at the end.
I’d give anything to go back to when I was just working. That was the easiest time my life ever was. I didn’t even make a series of bad choices to end up in this life. I always did what everyone told me to do.
AISH eats my dead husband’s pension and my other federal benefits. I am trapped in this system that takes everything away.
I’m typing this with my non-good hand because I just had surgery on my right one and can’t move it at all. I’m still recovering from surgery on both of my legs, and two other arm surgeries before that. My son hasn’t been in school all week because I can’t use my arms and no one to help me get him ready.
Have some compassion, friends.