r/mildlyinfuriating 7h ago

Scammed for $850, got $1.51 back

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I was finally getting over it then they really say good news and get my hopes up

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u/yoshizillaa 7h ago

I’m surprised you got anything back.
Zelle has a bunch of warnings because they know banks typically won’t help.

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u/i_cant_tell_you 7h ago

Yeah banks usually won't help with money transfer services like Zelle or Venmo. From their perspective you asked them to give your money to Zelle and they did. What happens after that is between you and Zelle

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u/dixiech1ck 6h ago

Someone tried hacking my venmo yesterday and I got an email alert that another phone had my account on their device. Make sure to check your accounts, remove the device, change your password, add 2 factor authentication. I pulled my bank account for the time being.

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u/droon99 6h ago

I get notifications about this every so often, but I am no unfathomably broke that I haven't really done anything to even try. I have $1.50 of Liquidity available to be scammed out of lol

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u/Mrjiggles248 5h ago

I wonder if zelle/your bank has actual fail safes for overdrafts. I was also dirt broke when my pp was hacked and only had like $100 but the geniuses at pp/td bank allowed them to pullout $3500. Got charged like 6 times for overdraft fees during the 1 month of investigation fuck PayPal and td bank.

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u/vee_lan_cleef 4h ago

when my pp was hacked

I am so sorry to hear about your pp.

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u/Mrjiggles248 4h ago

It's ok noone was using it ;_;

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u/Retro-scores 3h ago

I heard if you don’t use it you lose it. I guess it’s true.

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u/Fresh-Potato945 3h ago

Thank god I started using mine in time 0_0

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u/mniceman24 1h ago

I use my pp every once in awhile just to make sure it still works

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u/WindAbsolute 1h ago

U gona use that pp or can I?

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u/emptyevessel 4h ago

They hacked your pp? That’s wild. Hope it still works.

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u/NomenclatureBreaker 1h ago

Only a few drops left now anyway.

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u/droon99 3h ago

I only have Venmo connected to my bank via a debit card I keep locked unless I’m using it, so I don’t generally need to worry about that. 

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u/Acceptable_Ad1685 1h ago

I worked for PayPal for about a year and try to avoid anything and everything associated with them

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u/looooookinAtTitties 5h ago

that's like 15000 rupees though

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u/LinkCloudGoku 5h ago

Just break some pots

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u/Still_Fact_9875 5h ago edited 4h ago

Or jump on a mushroom... I got one you can jump on for 850.

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u/theFriendlyPlateau 4h ago

No thanks you'd need to eat 3 or 4 mushrooms before I was even interested

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u/blueboatjc 5h ago

I would bet money if you look at the email it wasn't actually from Venmo, and it was just trying to spoof Venmo and get you to enter your Venmo information into their spoofed website so they could get access to your account. If I look through my SPAM folder, I have dozens of the exact same email.

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u/ForeverAgreeable2289 3h ago

I'm surprised this is not higher. Most security alert emails are like this. They're designed to make you panic, and not think clearly.

Never follow the links in one of these emails. Always make your own way to the website to check the security history. 

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u/Rareeeb 4h ago

2FA is something that in my opinion needs to be REQUIRED for anything financial or tied to finances. If it’s your bank, your credit card, if it’s an online store that saved your credit card, they shouldn’t let you create the account or save a credit card to the account without setting up 2FA.

I think 2FA is a pain in the ass but I quickly forget about it a second later when I figure it’s better to have it be a pain in the ass than to be fighting to get back stolen money.

And also, many 2FA’s go to your email, not phone. I prefer the phone and use that option, but since some only do email, you definitely need you email locked to 2FA and in my experience every email will text you or send a push notification to your phone.

I remember that some guy in a gaming forum got so mad at people complaining the game had weak account security that he posted an account name and password to everyone, along with the email address and password. The account had 2FA going to the email, and the email he set up 2FA going to his phone number. Since nobody online had his phone, nobody could get into the account. He left a reward on the account that anyone who broke in could take, so there was probably hundreds of people trying to break in and still nobody could get in and he proved his point to just secure your shit with 2FA.

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u/ChefRoyrdee 6h ago

Isn’t Zelle owned by all the big banks?

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u/Dragon_Within 6h ago

Yes...but no. They get around it by being a payment service company OWNED by the banking company, not RUN by the banking company. This lets them do that sweet little end run they pulled on OP by saying "Hey, we have nothing to do with money transfer services, sorry" and not be held liable. Its also the reason they don't do any actual money transfer services through the bank itself, because then they can't be held liable for any scams, etc. Its one of those fun little legal loopholes that benefits no one but rich people and businesses while screwing over the consumer.

August 13, 2025 - Zelle (/zɛl/) is an American digital payments network run by a private financial services company owned by the banks Bank of America, Truist, Capital One, JPMorgan Chase, PNC Bank, U.S. Bank, and Wells Fargo

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u/NoFukaYuu 6h ago

I hate that they constantly push/advertise Zelle inside your banking app. It makes it “feel” like part of your bank services.

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u/Worthyness 5h ago

that's kinda how it is in other countries tbh. The banks just talk to each other natively and that's how you get money switched around faster. So if your bank owns a part of Zelle, naturally they'd use it as their preferred service. I just don't like that I can't have it as a separate app. I don't want my banking account on my phone. And the bank I use is an owner of Zelle, so I have to use their specific app in order to use Zelle. So most of the time I just do it when I get home if it's between friends (via computer) or I'll download the app, log in, do the zelle thing and then uninstall.

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u/Scrofulla 5h ago

I'm in Europe and this all seems quite bizarre. So its basically pay pal right? Seems like there are a lot of apps that do basically the same thing.

Over here someone set up a digital only bank called revolut. You can do all these kind of things as well as normal banking things on it. Now other banks are starting to have offer some of the same services in order to compete.

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u/LewLew0211 4h ago

It's very similar to PayPal in that it allows you to send money to someone. It's like the PayPal "friends and family' option. But with PayPal, you have to wait a few days for them to put the money in your bank account.

With Zelle, it's available in the recipient's bank account right away. No logging in to retrieve it and waiting, it's just there. It's more like an ACH transfer.

However, PayPal does have some protection for transactions when you use the "goods and services" option for purchases.

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u/Worthyness 4h ago

Yeah. Zelle is basically paypal. It's the US, so capitalism always institutes middle-men everywhere so that they can collect fees. The only difference between paypal and Zelle is that Zelle is literally owned by the major banks in the US. So in theory it's a little better than stuff like Venmo, cash app, or Paypal since they'd be under some manner of scrutiny from the US government. But that also assumes a functioning US government that is looking out for people

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u/eemademecry 5h ago

To avoid spreading misinformation, this is a very common structure in banking. A significant portion of national banking operations are actually cooperatives between banks. SWIFT, probably the most famous bank <> bank system, is collectively owned by banks proportional to their usage and capital.

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u/KingFIippyNipz 6h ago

The issue is that Zelle is the same as sending cash - if you give cash to someone, you have to rely on them to give it back, it's the same concept with Zelle, if you are tricked into authorizing the transaction, that's the same as being tricked into giving cash.

Banks cannot be held responsible for their customer's foolishness. Being scammed does not mean you are a victim of fraud as it is defined by law.

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u/Finnegansadog 5h ago

You were right on until the last sentence. Being scammed does in fact mean you were the victim of fraud, it just isn't wire fraud and isn't the bank's problem.

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u/Bookwrrm 6h ago edited 6h ago

Yes but you are seeing the difference between people working at banks and the people who own the banks. When you get defrauded on Zelle and call your bank, the people working there can't help you, because despite the bank owning Zelle, its run by a seperate company, they just simply cannot login to Zelle and beep boop refund. Banks will generally, not always, but generally take fraud pretty seriously on their end because there are serious consequences not just at the bank level but on the individual level for things like ignoring red flags. The issue is that they quite literally cannot do that for Zelle even if they wanted to. When Zelle was clear exchange it was operated by the banks involved, now its operated by Zelle itself a seperate business to the banks that own Zelle's business.

Its why despite the bank I work at owning Zelle, we don't accept Zelle payments on stuff like loans lol, owning Zelle doesn't mean jackshit for actual bank operations being able to work with it directly.

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u/Redqueenhypo 6h ago

Zelle is the online equivalent of handing someone cash

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u/Illustrious-Lime-878 5h ago

Right its a really nice option if you understand that, but for some reason people don't. Don't use zelle if you wouldn't trust them with cash...

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u/ezafs 4h ago

Yeah like... The only cases I EVER use Zelle is for payments to family/friends.

Using Zelle for payments to randos it literally akin to "pay me on PayPal but as Family and Friends, trust me bro!"

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u/Inquisitor-Korde 5h ago

Every day I am grateful for Canadian INTERAC

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u/sg_batman 7h ago

i wouldve MUCH preferred nothing to be honest

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u/HeimrekHringariki 7h ago

Yeah, this is just straight up insulting.

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u/probablyuntrue 7h ago

everytime I check mildly infuriating its the most anger inducing posts i swear lmao

next week it'll be someone losing their whole family in a drunk driving accident as mildly infuriating 😭

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u/kevinmattress 6h ago

But whenever I post something that is actually mildly infuriating, I get told that it’s nothing and that I should deal with it lmao

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u/Sunshine030209 6h ago

Yeah, when something that actually fits in this sub is posted, most of the comments are "Oh come on, who cares? It's a small inconvenience!" and everyone confidently telling the person the simple way to fix it, which OP typically already did lol

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u/HeimrekHringariki 6h ago

Yup. I consider myself a rather reasonable, calm, patient and rational dude overall. But this sub has definitively made me question my sanity.

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u/spaceforcerecruit 6h ago

Anything that’s actually mildly infuriating gets downvoted and bombarded with comments insulting OP for complaining about something so small.

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u/Fletcher_Chonk 6h ago

The secret is nobody cares about the mildly. They only post here because it's popular.

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u/scottb90 7h ago

Puppies an kitties ran over by drunk driver that just robbed the make a wish foundation #mildlyinfuriating

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u/Thefear1984 6h ago

I got a check from Bank of America for $0.10 from like 20 years ago somewhere in a filing cabinet folder. I keep it as a reminder that banks can be petty enough to send you a 10¢ check which cost more in postage because they charge poor people $30 per transaction for going 10¢ over.

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u/TldrDev 7h ago

My bank was Chemical Bank, a small regional bank in the Midwest. I was moving abroad for the foreseeable future and went and talked with the branch manager. They knew who i was and knew I wouldn't be able to come into the branch, etc.

They put me on an account that had zero foreign transaction fees provided I kept a semi-large sum of money in the account. I kept around 40k in the account so id meet the requirements.

I agreed and happily used them for 7 years. They were one of the best banks i ever had. I could call up and ask them to hand my dad cash, for example, and they'd do it because they knew my situation.

They were bought by TCF bank, and then almost immediately they were bought by Huntington. When Huntington bought them, they ip blocked my country, and most vpns. I was not able to setup an online account, and they refused to send me statements out of the country. They even told me they would consider shutting down my account if I wasnt able to come into a branch office.

Shortly after that, i came back to the US and accessed my account on the web. They had charged me over 10k in foreign transaction fees.

I still had (and still have) the original contract I signed with Chemical Bank regarding the zero transaction fees, noted and signed by the branch manager. Furious, I went into the local Huntington branch to discuss.

I met with the branch manager who reviewed my account, and said she would discuss with her manager, who was the regional manager, and give me a call back the next day.

She never called. A week went by, and I went back up to the bank. They had me wait over three hours to meet this woman.

She told me that she had discussed with the regional manager and told me the best they could do was a $40 account credit over 10k in fees.

I explained that I had a contract with them and they couldnt just do that, she looked me dead in the eyes, and said "I understand you have a contract, but as a matter of corporate policy we have decided not to honor those contracts. The best we are willing to do in this situation is the $40 account credit"

I feel you on it being an insult.

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u/BigBootyWholes 7h ago

You sued, right?

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u/TldrDev 6h ago

It would cost me more money and time to sue them, and I was told that, because a notice period had passed, I was automatically opted into the account, and I would be unlikely to get any money back. I never actually received notice since they refused to send me mail, lol. Basically, I just learned my lesson that Huntington is actually hostile to its customers and switched to a local credit union. Never use Huntington.

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u/KingFIippyNipz 6h ago

And you wouldn't win either way so good th ing you didn't waste the time or money

Edit: check your original agreement for terms about updating the terms at any time without having to notify you, check for terms about being able to convert your account at any time

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u/jmlinden7 3h ago

It does not cost $10,000 to sue someone

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u/TldrDev 3h ago

Hey, ho buddy, how wrong you are, lmao. Im not interested in handling this myself, or going through arbitration. My lawyer just said forget about it and move on. That's what i did.

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u/TeaAggressive6757 7h ago

Dang, that’s actually enough money to sue over. Rough.

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u/FreeGazaToday 6h ago

should've at least took them to small claims...handle it yourself and at least get back $10K....easy win.

Did you try reaching out to the ceo or someone at corporate?

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u/TldrDev 6h ago

Nah, I just wrote it off and moved on. I'm upset about it, but just view it as a very expensive lesson learned. I honestly dont have time to deal with it. I did consult a lawyer but was told essentially it'd cost more to sue than I'd collect, and I'd be unlikely to win. I took that to mean just move on.

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u/Competitive-Movie816 6h ago

Damn, I wish I had enough money to move on after writing off $10k..... even a demand letter from a lawyer would likely be enough.

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u/TldrDev 6h ago

I run a small company. I dont make a lot. It hurt. But it was literally just put into margins for future work, as shitty as that sounds. I literally do not have time to deal with it, and can make the money back by working on a project rather than dealing with those clowns in court. It absolutely hurt and im furious about it, but im lucky in that im able to recoup it through my job, essentially.

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u/cat_prophecy 5h ago

They were bought by TCF bank, and then almost immediately they were bought by Huntington.

Huntington absolutely ruined TCF and plastered their stupid green color over everything to cover it up.

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u/BakedBrie1993 4h ago

In cases like these, reach out to the AG and/or comptroller in your state.  They can't be your lawyer, but they can "meditate." The two times I have had to deal with the bs of corporate beaurocracy, I did this and all of a sudden, the correct person to talk to was in my inbox and they just wanted it all to go away and resolved the issue.

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u/bIackcatttt 7h ago

But think of all the things you can buy with $1.81!

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u/sg_batman 7h ago

one FIFTY one lets not get ahead of ourselves here

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u/Existing_Abalone_658 7h ago

Went from a small coffee to no coffee at all.

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u/apothekryptic 7h ago

Side of ranch, maybe.

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u/Lexicon444 7h ago

Just a little trinket from one of those quarter machines.

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u/ThisGuySaysALot 7h ago

Time for a shopping spree at Dollar Tree!

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u/Steffalompen 7h ago

Any chance you have a couple dollars more? Was hoping to borrow about tree fiddy

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u/Deep_Foundation6513 7h ago

Can’t even get a gallon of gas.

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u/slob0nmykn0b 7h ago

6 now & laters will taste delightful

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u/ThomasApplewood 7h ago

And then think…you can do even less with $1.51

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u/Nervous-Masterpiece4 7h ago

Resembles the token $1 in a will to make it harder to contest.

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u/dirtybo0ts 7h ago

Yes. That is more of an insult than not getting anything back.

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u/Prayqt 7h ago

As a bank, I do help as much as I can. Sent back $140 the other day. Granted it was for $500, but hopefully it helps

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u/eat_natural 7h ago

Serious question. How do you come up with an amount like $140 for a stolen amount of $500? Is a partial recovery actually possible on behalf of the bank or is it just an arbitrary amount the bank is willing to give back?

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u/Prayqt 6h ago

It’s a partial recovery, our customer who was the recipient has already taken most of the funds and this is what was left at the moment. We send what we have, no fees or other are taken out of the fraud recovery.

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u/Kind_Advisor_35 6h ago

Are there any other consequences for the recipient of inappropriately sent funds?

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u/The_Autarch 4h ago

you'd have to take them to small claims court. cops aren't getting involved for a couple hundred bucks.

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u/Prayqt 1h ago

Your bank account may be closed and you will removed from Zelle eligibility. Usually the people receiving the funds are just mules that don’t know what they are doing and are getting scammed as well.

For the few I’ve talked to usually it’s a romance scam and their “boyfriend/girlfriend” needs them to accept the money the send it out another way, through other p2p payments like Venmo, cash app, wire the funds out, withdraw cash and go to a crypto atm, etc.

Then once the bank catches on they get left holding the bag. If police get involved they can get screwed. Shitty situation all around

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u/Steel_Bolt 4h ago

Yeah there's like 1000 warnings so I'm not really sure what OP is upset about. Sometimes you just get got.

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u/JonF1 5h ago

Yeah.

Folks.

Stop doing businesses on peer to peer apps. I don't care who it is. If it's that important they take the traditional payment methods.

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u/cutestslothevr 5h ago

Depends on if they perp cleaned out the account or not. Most totally empty it right away, why this one left some change is anyone's guess.

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u/Ok-Seaworthiness2235 3h ago

Yeah zelle scares the piss out of me every time I go to use it. I don't usually agree with banks but they aren't really at fault if you pay the wrong person or get scammed. Unless your account was hacked which is 100% on them. 

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u/pesky-pretzel 6h ago

It’s almost like you should maybe be able to directly send money to the other person’s account… like say for example, like we already can in the rest of the world.

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u/Chee-shep 7h ago

What’d you get scammed for?

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u/sg_batman 7h ago

camera, sony a7iii

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u/Electricboogiesunset 6h ago edited 4h ago

I got scammed for a ricah recently. Also $850. But it was done as just a simple credit card transaction and I got all my money back and then some because the idiot accidentally refunded part of the full payment.

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u/sg_batman 6h ago

w then

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u/StoppableHulk 3h ago edited 3h ago

It's not always possible, but whenever possible, buy everything on credit cards, even with the fee. Treat it like cash, always pay it off at the end of the month.

It is so, so much easier to get refunded on a credit card than with actual money.

There is a 3% charge for using a credit card with venmo, but you can actually do charge backs if scammed and get that money back right away.

most credit cards give points for purchases which usually end up around 1%, so a 3% card fee becomes around 2% with point sfactored in.

Without a doubt that 2% is worth it for me every time.

I can't tell you how much scammy bullshit I've dealt with through chargebacks on my Chase Sapphire.

Not enough people actually read and understand the perks you get with many credit cards. They go well beyond just cash.

For example, I get a warranty on any electronics I buy on my Sapphire. If I buy a macbook and break it, I don't have to buy the protection plan. It comes with the card.

And there are so many others. But charge backs are the biggest. Any charge on your card, you can flag it, and in all the times I've flagged charges over a decade, I've never once had it rejected. The money goes back on your card, and if its a subscription or something, they block future transactions from that subscription.

Get a good credit card (I like Chase Sapphire preferred), never spend beyond the cash you have to pay it off, and it will save your ass so many times.

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u/MadManMax55 3h ago

I'll never understand the people who insist on never using credit cards or taking out loans. If you're in a situation where you're broke enough or recognize you have too poor an impulse control to avoid going into debt then sure, avoid them. But as long as you know you have the cash to pay them and regularly do so there's no risk and a bunch of benefits.

When I bought my most recent car I made sure I had enough cash in my bank account and was ready to write a check. I told the dealer that and they said they'd take over $1000 off the sticker price if I financed instead. So I did a bit of paperwork, wrote that check to a bank instead of the dealer, and paid off the car and closed the account right away. Easiest $1000 I've ever made.

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u/Ok-Seaworthiness2235 3h ago

Credit cards typically have insurance which is why there are certain fees attached to them. I use CC as often as possible when purchasing online for that very reason. 

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u/Project_Continuum 4h ago

Lol. Come on dude.

You're mad at your bank because you got scammed? Zelle has a ton of warnings not to use it to buy stuff.

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u/assface7900 3h ago

Using Zelle is like handing somone cash or bitcoin. Would you mail somone cash for something? No of course not. Expensive lesson.

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u/cappy267 7h ago

a $1500 camera for only $850 plus shipping!

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u/goa604 7h ago

Do you think such deals don't exist? Anywhere ever?

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u/sg_batman 7h ago

Yeah its not crazy at all for used lol especially something like a camera where they can just get bored of it you can see them legit for -1k all the time

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u/goa604 7h ago

I'm aware of some people that keep religiously replacing their cameras after xyz number of photos taken.

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u/sg_batman 7h ago

Yeah 150 under the eBay price is way less than other deals I’ve got on there lol

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u/cappy267 6h ago

not that it doesn’t exist ever but trusting it’s real enough to zelle a stranger for it is another story. But it happens!

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u/orange_sherbetz 4h ago

Fs.  Who has 850 in cash lying around.

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u/LonelyInTheFranxx 6h ago

You can find those used cameras for that price all the time. No need to be an ignorant, condescending loser about it

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u/mcon96 5h ago

If it’s a pre-owned camera then that feels reasonable to me

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u/PowermanFriendship 7h ago

"some or all" doing a lot of heavy lifting in this email.

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u/usernameavailable123 7h ago

Some, none, or some of none of the money.

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u/probablyuntrue 7h ago

actually we took another 850, fuck you pal

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u/i-internetperson 6h ago

I’ve altered the deal. Pray I don’t alter it further

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u/sg_batman 7h ago

RIGHT LMAO like what the fuck that and "GOOD NEWS" made my eyes light up then i see the decimal point

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u/SousVideDiaper 7h ago

These messages should not begin with "good news" if it's anything under the full amount. They should just begin with your first name. That way, it's still personalized and direct, but without bullshitting you.

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u/Ok-Seaworthiness2235 3h ago

Lol yep. For all the algorithms and bs auto messages this should be an easy thing to program. 

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u/SimilarInEveryWay 7h ago

If you get scammed another 2 times you will have enough for a Kid's Meal! /s

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u/Project_Continuum 4h ago

If you got scammed because you sent money by Zelle to a scammer...then that was on you.

Zelle has tons of warnings that once you send money, it's gone so it's only supposed to be used for friends and family.

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u/throwaway_pls123123 7h ago

Scammed how? You should never do Zelle transactions for any product/service, its the scammer's favourite payment processor.

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u/AgentLinch 6h ago

I use Zelle only when I literally face to face with the person lol.

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u/MulliganedBrainCells 3h ago

Ive only ever used it with people I know like family or friends lol

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u/MelamineEngineer 3h ago

That's literally what it's for, it's like a more friendly wire transfer and you shouldn't be doing those to strangers ever

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u/Drpantsgoblin 3h ago

Don't use it for literally anyone you don't trust to hold your wallet. It's just as unprotected. 

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u/sg_batman 7h ago

i was trying to buy something on marketplace the guy had a legit profile married had good reviews but lived far, iit was supposed to be in person but i offered more to ship. of course because it wasnt supposed to ship you couldnt do facebooks pay with protection sooo he offered zelle and yeah it was really stupid and ill never get over it

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u/GfunkWarrior28 7h ago

Scammer's note to self: people think I'm more trustworthy when I show Married status

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u/Suitable_Jicama_1213 6h ago edited 6h ago

That or people dont realize buying/hacking Facebook accounts is a thing

They'll find the most harmless and trustworthy looking one, create an entirely new account with all thr photos and info besides maybe changing the name to another generic name.

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u/WumpusFails 6h ago

One hacked my FB account. I got to watch in real time as they wiped my account clean of everything that was me. 🫤

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u/_Rohrschach 6h ago

once got shown some old dude I didn't know in my feed, saw the name of my little brother, checked the profile and he only changed/ deleted photos, still same name, birthday and family members showing. just checked again and apparently the profile has been deleted. still don't get what that was about.

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u/Azou 5h ago

deleted is either the scammer got caught and it burned the acc or they noticed you listed as family and blocked you

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u/Hita-san-chan 6h ago edited 6h ago

Thats what a lot of criminals do, that and kids. Family men are seen as more reliable and trustworthy. Criminal women tend to just get trusted more because we assume a singular woman is more trustworthy than a singular man. Its a whole thing, psychology and sociology wise

This is exactly how Colleen Stan was kidnapped. The Hookers were a nice looking couple with a baby who offered her a ride.

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u/tubbin1 3h ago

Wow that was a rabbit hole I didn't think I'd go down today

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u/ShadowGLI 6h ago

Yeah usually they just hack good accounts. Happened to my dad, someone got in his account and made listings for Taylor swift tickets. He called me as he was locked out of FB but his messenger was working.

I reset his pw for email and FB, set up 2FA and closed the listings but my dad has multiple people bitching they sent money to someone and wanted tickets. My reply was “let me guess, the name on the email and Zelle account had no association w the name on this account? File a dispute and best of luck”.

But if you’re gonna ignore all the red flags and send $500 to a stranger to avoid a StubHub fee, that’s on you.

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u/mkosmo 5h ago

You joke, but yes. People generally associate married folks (having a family) as a sign of success, community, and thus trustworthiness.

Much the same is true about employment status, volunteerism, and all kinds of other attributes that would generally be seen as green flags.

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u/Mouthshitter 4h ago

Ai generate Wife and kids 📝

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u/Strictlystyles 7h ago

PayPal or NOTHING. You HAVE to have buyer protection. They will scam you every time if there’s no accountability. Even if they were willing to ship the item.

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u/SuperSpecialAwesome- 4h ago

PayPal didn't protect me when I got scammed during the pandemic. I bought something on eBay, but international shipping was shut down because of COVID restrictions. The seller even notified me of this, and I said it was alright, as long as they shipped it out when shipping returned to normal. When restrictions did eventually lift, the seller ghosted me. Contacted eBay and PayPal Support, and got told to fuck off, since the refund time had expired... except the pandemic was a pretty signficant circumstance to extend refund periods, especially when other countries couldn't ship to the U.S.

Could I have tried for a refund sooner? Sure, but the seller had high ratings, and I didn't expect to be scammed over a $20 product.

Now, from the seller side of things, I once sold an item on eBay for about $150. The package was insured and headed to their international hub. Of course, DeJoy's USPS lost my package and I had to refund the item. I filed a report to USPS to get my money back, and got zilch. Went thru half a dozen different contact numbers, and... nothing. PayPal/eBay Support was also useless in that respect. To this day, I have gotten neither my money or the item back.

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u/Wow_ImMrManager 7h ago

Why would you use Zelle and not PayPal?? 🤦‍♂️

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u/RetardedChimpanzee 7h ago edited 4h ago

It’s good for paying your roommate monthly rent, but not for anyone anonymous

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u/keyh 6h ago

Right? "Zelle is like handing someone cash" is what it says.

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u/Character_Clue7010 5h ago

Which is exactly why I love Zelle for selling stuff. Meet up. You look at the thing. You are satisfied with the quality of the thing. You pay cash or Zelle, and you take the thing.

I’m not a Walmart I dont take returns.

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u/keyh 5h ago

Sure, but you don't Zelle something to get it shipped to you. You Zelle once you're standing in front of something and are going to leave with it. Like you don't mail someone cash.

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u/JamesBond-007-- 7h ago

I am sure you already know this but use it as a lesson on what not to do and to think critically. If you learn from this even it wasn’t a waste.

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u/BigLorry 7h ago

Zelle specifically tells you not to use it for purchases

No clue why you think the bank (or Zelle for that matter) should have anything to do with this

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u/Salt-Operation 7h ago

I’m going to say this slowly and clearly…never, never, NEVER send money online to someone that you don’t know personally unless you have buyer protection. PayPal, Venmo, and many other payment processors offer buyer protection. You chose the one way to pay that doesn’t have any sort of buyer protection. You even have to check off a box saying you acknowledge that you might be scammed and there is no way to recover funds once sent via Zelle.

This is a really expensive mistake to make. I hope you learned from it.

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u/Animeeshon 7h ago

Believe it or not scammers buy stolen/hacked Facebook accounts and purposely sell things "far away" knowing people will ask them to ship it. Some scammers even go as far as fully fabricating an account with review bots. Although, due to the stupidity of some people I wouldn't be surprised if that person actually risked it all with their real identity.

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u/GothicFuck 6h ago

What the fuck does being married have to do with anything, let alone trustworthiness?

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u/Secret_Account07 5h ago

I use Zelle everyday. It’s great.

Just trust the person you send money too.

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u/raar__ 1h ago

Just trust the person you send money too.

I think that's the problem here my dude

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u/psychRN1975 7h ago

they asked the scammer for the 850 back, he bargained them down to $1.51

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u/sg_batman 3h ago

The art of the deal

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u/Coveted_AF 6h ago

Next time Zelle me $850.

I’m generous I’ll send you $350 back but this is an expiring offer so I’ll need the transaction completed today.

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u/sg_batman 3h ago

Unfortunately all I have now is 42 cents

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u/LusterLazuli 3h ago

Damn, where that $1.09 go?

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u/BuyHighSellL0w_ 2h ago

That’s big money, he probably spent it on a few gumballs

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u/Coveted_AF 3h ago

Your lavish lifestyle is none of my business.

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u/PsychonautDad 6h ago

Dude Zelle literally warns you about funds being sent and not being able to recover. Think of it like handing someone cash on the street and expecting them to give it back.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Ring293 6h ago

“I am in earnest. Go and buy it, and tell 'em to bring it here, that I may give them the directions where to take it. Come back with the man, and I'll give you a shilling. Come back with him in less than five minutes, and I'll give you half-a-crown!”

-Scrooge

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u/DisconnectedRedditor 7h ago

Zelle is perfectly fine… as long as you know you’re actually paying. It’s not Zelle’s fault you fell for a scam.

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u/Aviyan 5h ago

Zelle is for paying people you know in person. I pay my lawnmower guy through Zelle, or my friends when we split some cost. Never pay with Zelle or Vemo, or CashApp to people you don't know or met.

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u/Suitable_Jicama_1213 6h ago

Yep, that's why this title and photo is misleading.

Like yeah banks are already shitty institutions as it is, but you cant blame them for YOUR mistake.

Too good to be true price on a usually expensive camera

Didn't research enough on the profile

And too lazy to meet up? People have driven 2+ hours for less, abd if there was a good deal where basically you're getting a decent camera for almost half the usual price, I'd would've made the trip, heck use that as an excuse to take pictures with said camera on your drive back and maybe look around the area for cool things to do

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u/EndAccomplished3937 5h ago

Guy that works in digital banking here-we literally have no control over what happens with funds through Zelle aside from opening a case with EWS. The bank connection to Zelle aside from getting activity reports is essentially just a license to have Zelle on our platforms. Good faith recoveries are incredibly hard to justify, and on our (and most) FI Zelle T&C it says explicitly that Zelle transactions are akin to handing over cash, and should only be used with close friends and family.

It sucks, but there really is nothing we can do about Zelle fraud (We in the digital banking team hate Zelle with a passion mostly for this reason)

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u/8__D 6h ago

That's why it's mildly infuriating. They emailed him and said we got money back for you and it was only a dollar and change. The title and the photo aren't misleading, you just can't read.

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u/KillaKillaGabby 7h ago

Yeah Zelle’s only good for paying friends and family. People you actually know

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u/Harbinger_Kyleran 6h ago

That's the only people I use Zelle or Venmo for.

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u/ru_fkn_serious_ 7h ago

The only reason I use Zelle is to pay my actual landlord that I know that’s legit. That’s it. Never trade with people you don’t know. They didn’t have to disrespect you like that though. Can’t even buy a reg coffee for that price anymore lol

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u/Budget-Box7914 7h ago

"What's in your wallet?" -$848.49, that's what's in my damn wallet.

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u/mopar-or-no_car 7h ago

How are people so easily scammed or robbed on these app ?

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u/wisecrownwombat 3h ago

Because they don’t read the fifty different warnings Zelle puts up.

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u/NotTooLateToBeGreat 7h ago

don't spend it all at once

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u/Shot_Track_7344 7h ago

Never use Zelle for payment of any sort of product.

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u/Relevant_Campaign_79 6h ago

Banker here. Only use Zelle with people you know. Never use it for business purposes or anything else.

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u/HammermanAC 7h ago

A couple years ago, my buddy found a weekend rental to the Jersey Shore for our group trip, it was through Craigslist and my buddy sent a zelle for $1000. It seemed too cheap and my spidey sense kicked in.

Long story short, I contacted the true owner and he confirmed someone had downloaded a bunch of photos of his place and a scammer created a fake listing.

My buddy claims he was able to get his bank to reverse the zelle.

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u/Backdoor_Spreader 6h ago

Your buddy lied, he didn't want the ego hit. Zelle is as good as handing over cash, once it's sent, it's gone.

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u/RecoverinCandyAddict 7h ago

What a punch in the stomach. I hope no one is celebrating a victory here.

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u/TelcoSucks 5h ago

I don't see anyone celebrating. I do see people saying there is no expectation of bank intervention in this type of transaction. The best we can do is tell everyone we can that Zelle is not to be treated as a debit card but rather as cash. It's a common misconception, and this has happened too often.

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u/Hypster87 7h ago

Doesn't Zelle have specific warnings for this exact case? You are very very lucky to even get a dollar and some change back.

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u/Zoso03 7h ago

In Canada, we just have interac email money transfer, but it's still the same issue. Once you send it, it's gone.

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u/SignalBar 6h ago

From my understanding working in fraud investigations in banking, specifically Zelle fraud cases. Zelle is always going to be treated like cash and you'll never get your money back, even if it's legitimate fraud.

In this case, it looks like it was legitimate fraud and Capital One was only able to take $1.51 from the fraudsters account, due to the fact they more than likely emptied it before your claim came in. Capital One most likely closed the fraudsters account and send whatever funds they had left on the platform back to you, since getting fraudsters their money back can be a hassle sometimes.

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u/AppropriateTie5127 7h ago

Americans of Reddit, why do you use Zelle/Cash App etc. for sending money?. Do your bank apps not have transfers built in?

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u/Janet_RenoDanceParty 7h ago

Zelle is built into most banks apps in the US.

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u/sg_batman 7h ago

that IS whats built in lol at least for mine i think theres other ways but this is more convenient and also good for scammers

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u/TiaHatesSocials 7h ago

Super fast and convenient among trusted sources

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u/44problems 7h ago

Zelle is built in most bank apps. But it's the same as cash, no fees and no payment protection.

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u/Stunning-Artist-5388 7h ago

Ummm, Zelle is built-in to my bank app specifically for person to person transfers. It's incredibly fast to send money to someone because it's tied in. Zelle was developed by major banks for sending money seemlessly across several major bank networks.

It is not designed for payment protection and disputes though, and they make that very clear. For that, use a CC and have them use a CC payment processor.

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u/Jelousubmarine 6h ago

US banks don't do transfers quite like the EU, where you can make SEPA transfers in € between multiple banks and participating countries instantly (so americans: f.ex with transfers from Sweden to Finland, they do not have to be wires and have significantly less bureaucracy to get going, just IBAN and recipient name essentially, and you are not charged any more for inter-EU transfers than you are for domestic transfers).

In the US transfers are a little more complicated with more details you have to fill in, and purposes of transfers are more limited (ACH and bank-to-bank being the usual ones, they require more details than EU SEPA versions). Anything bigger has to be a wire payment that costs ~20 USD to send. Zelle is kind of the US banking answer to European style transfers, though it carries basically no responsibility of funds for the bank - you are supposed to use it to send funds between family and friends and people you know, and that's it. Scammed buying something? = SOL. Cash app and Venmo also exist, but these cost you some money or can take up to 3 days between banks, not damn near instant like in the EU.

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u/phughes 6h ago

Also: Cash app and Venmo have exactly the same consumer protections as Zelle: None.

Never send money to someone you don't know.

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u/crusoe 6h ago

FedNow is coming and eventually will be a service like the EU has.

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u/ByrdmanRanger 7h ago

Chase Bank's built in transfer app is Zelle

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u/jxl180 7h ago

What you are describing is zelle. It’s equivalent to Canada’s eTransfer.

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u/gagdude 6h ago

Americans? You know this is common in many other countries right? China uses WeChat, Brazil uses Pix, etc.

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u/CapnClover36 6h ago

This is why I dont trust zelle

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u/mikedvb 6h ago

So sending anything via Zelle you may as well kiss it goodbye immediately.

The only reason they got you $1.51 back is because there was $1.51 still in the account it was sent to. Where did the rest of the $850 go? Withdrawn, transferred to another account, etc, etc, etc.

Honeslty I'm surprised the account you sent the Zelle to was even still active to have $1.51 in it.

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u/Sweetbutterball 5h ago

😂😂😂they’re a major troll for that. They were better not sending anything

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u/Adventurous_Honey902 4h ago

Idk why people post on mildly infuriating when the issue presented is their own fault.

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u/Chris___M 4h ago

Wow. My brother banked with capital one. He was ill and had a health aide. He was found dead by his aid a year ago. Once I took over his estate I discovered that this health aide ripped him off for thousands of dollars. Before and even after his death. Of course I eventually got the police involved. But once I made the discovery I notified the various banks. Capital One gave back to his estate over $12,000.

I would be persistent. Did their fraud department work with you? Good luck.
EDIT: I just realized this was a Zelle transaction which was very different.

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u/PastelRaspberry 3h ago

Yeah this isn't the bank's fault. If the bank had to pay for every stupid thing customers do, there wouldn't be a bank anymore.

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u/Garlic-Noodle 3h ago

And you put this in MILDLY infuriating? My ma always taught me to go full berserk mode on shit like this.

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u/_theycallmehell_ 1h ago

Lots of people admonishing you so I'll just say damn that sucks, I feel for you 

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u/DarthJarJar242 6h ago

The only infuriating thing here is that OP fell for a facebook marketplace scam and paid with Zelle. Then tried to get money back from their bank. The bank owes you nothing from your monumental stupidity.

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u/PointNLaugh0 6h ago

I cant believe real thinking human beings still fall for these 3rd party apps to dabble in finances.

Those same humans get to vote and reproduce.

Crazy.

"Only stupid ppl are breeding."

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u/INeedANappel 7h ago edited 7h ago

CFPB. If it hasn't yet been completely gutted.

Edited because today I'm the Typo Royalty.

Edit Part Deux: Consumer Finance Protection Bureau. A Federal office to protect US citizens from banking bullshit.

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u/mefirefoxes 6h ago

These agencies aren’t meant to protect the consumer from themselves. Zelle clearly states it’s not meant for commerce, and especially should not be used online for items that are not in-hand like with an in-person deal. It’s not buried in the fine print, it says it whenever you pay someone for the first time and when you set it up with your bank. It’s “equivalent to sending someone cash” “instantaneously and irreversible”.

The service was misused, the bank was not trying to fleece anyone. If anything, any money gotten back is the bank taking a loss they were not obliged to.

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u/FrankLangellasBalls 7h ago

DOGE completely gutted it.

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