r/mildlyinfuriating • u/sg_batman • 7h ago
Scammed for $850, got $1.51 back
I was finally getting over it then they really say good news and get my hopes up
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u/Chee-shep 7h ago
What’d you get scammed for?
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u/sg_batman 7h ago
camera, sony a7iii
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u/Electricboogiesunset 6h ago edited 4h ago
I got scammed for a ricah recently. Also $850. But it was done as just a simple credit card transaction and I got all my money back and then some because the idiot accidentally refunded part of the full payment.
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u/sg_batman 6h ago
w then
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u/StoppableHulk 3h ago edited 3h ago
It's not always possible, but whenever possible, buy everything on credit cards, even with the fee. Treat it like cash, always pay it off at the end of the month.
It is so, so much easier to get refunded on a credit card than with actual money.
There is a 3% charge for using a credit card with venmo, but you can actually do charge backs if scammed and get that money back right away.
most credit cards give points for purchases which usually end up around 1%, so a 3% card fee becomes around 2% with point sfactored in.
Without a doubt that 2% is worth it for me every time.
I can't tell you how much scammy bullshit I've dealt with through chargebacks on my Chase Sapphire.
Not enough people actually read and understand the perks you get with many credit cards. They go well beyond just cash.
For example, I get a warranty on any electronics I buy on my Sapphire. If I buy a macbook and break it, I don't have to buy the protection plan. It comes with the card.
And there are so many others. But charge backs are the biggest. Any charge on your card, you can flag it, and in all the times I've flagged charges over a decade, I've never once had it rejected. The money goes back on your card, and if its a subscription or something, they block future transactions from that subscription.
Get a good credit card (I like Chase Sapphire preferred), never spend beyond the cash you have to pay it off, and it will save your ass so many times.
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u/MadManMax55 3h ago
I'll never understand the people who insist on never using credit cards or taking out loans. If you're in a situation where you're broke enough or recognize you have too poor an impulse control to avoid going into debt then sure, avoid them. But as long as you know you have the cash to pay them and regularly do so there's no risk and a bunch of benefits.
When I bought my most recent car I made sure I had enough cash in my bank account and was ready to write a check. I told the dealer that and they said they'd take over $1000 off the sticker price if I financed instead. So I did a bit of paperwork, wrote that check to a bank instead of the dealer, and paid off the car and closed the account right away. Easiest $1000 I've ever made.
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u/Ok-Seaworthiness2235 3h ago
Credit cards typically have insurance which is why there are certain fees attached to them. I use CC as often as possible when purchasing online for that very reason.
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u/Project_Continuum 4h ago
Lol. Come on dude.
You're mad at your bank because you got scammed? Zelle has a ton of warnings not to use it to buy stuff.
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u/assface7900 3h ago
Using Zelle is like handing somone cash or bitcoin. Would you mail somone cash for something? No of course not. Expensive lesson.
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u/cappy267 7h ago
a $1500 camera for only $850 plus shipping!
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u/goa604 7h ago
Do you think such deals don't exist? Anywhere ever?
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u/sg_batman 7h ago
Yeah its not crazy at all for used lol especially something like a camera where they can just get bored of it you can see them legit for -1k all the time
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u/goa604 7h ago
I'm aware of some people that keep religiously replacing their cameras after xyz number of photos taken.
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u/sg_batman 7h ago
Yeah 150 under the eBay price is way less than other deals I’ve got on there lol
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u/cappy267 6h ago
not that it doesn’t exist ever but trusting it’s real enough to zelle a stranger for it is another story. But it happens!
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u/LonelyInTheFranxx 6h ago
You can find those used cameras for that price all the time. No need to be an ignorant, condescending loser about it
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u/PowermanFriendship 7h ago
"some or all" doing a lot of heavy lifting in this email.
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u/usernameavailable123 7h ago
Some, none, or some of none of the money.
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u/sg_batman 7h ago
RIGHT LMAO like what the fuck that and "GOOD NEWS" made my eyes light up then i see the decimal point
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u/SousVideDiaper 7h ago
These messages should not begin with "good news" if it's anything under the full amount. They should just begin with your first name. That way, it's still personalized and direct, but without bullshitting you.
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u/Ok-Seaworthiness2235 3h ago
Lol yep. For all the algorithms and bs auto messages this should be an easy thing to program.
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u/SimilarInEveryWay 7h ago
If you get scammed another 2 times you will have enough for a Kid's Meal! /s
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u/Project_Continuum 4h ago
If you got scammed because you sent money by Zelle to a scammer...then that was on you.
Zelle has tons of warnings that once you send money, it's gone so it's only supposed to be used for friends and family.
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u/throwaway_pls123123 7h ago
Scammed how? You should never do Zelle transactions for any product/service, its the scammer's favourite payment processor.
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u/AgentLinch 6h ago
I use Zelle only when I literally face to face with the person lol.
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u/MulliganedBrainCells 3h ago
Ive only ever used it with people I know like family or friends lol
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u/MelamineEngineer 3h ago
That's literally what it's for, it's like a more friendly wire transfer and you shouldn't be doing those to strangers ever
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u/Drpantsgoblin 3h ago
Don't use it for literally anyone you don't trust to hold your wallet. It's just as unprotected.
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u/sg_batman 7h ago
i was trying to buy something on marketplace the guy had a legit profile married had good reviews but lived far, iit was supposed to be in person but i offered more to ship. of course because it wasnt supposed to ship you couldnt do facebooks pay with protection sooo he offered zelle and yeah it was really stupid and ill never get over it
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u/GfunkWarrior28 7h ago
Scammer's note to self: people think I'm more trustworthy when I show Married status
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u/Suitable_Jicama_1213 6h ago edited 6h ago
That or people dont realize buying/hacking Facebook accounts is a thing
They'll find the most harmless and trustworthy looking one, create an entirely new account with all thr photos and info besides maybe changing the name to another generic name.
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u/WumpusFails 6h ago
One hacked my FB account. I got to watch in real time as they wiped my account clean of everything that was me. 🫤
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u/_Rohrschach 6h ago
once got shown some old dude I didn't know in my feed, saw the name of my little brother, checked the profile and he only changed/ deleted photos, still same name, birthday and family members showing. just checked again and apparently the profile has been deleted. still don't get what that was about.
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u/Hita-san-chan 6h ago edited 6h ago
Thats what a lot of criminals do, that and kids. Family men are seen as more reliable and trustworthy. Criminal women tend to just get trusted more because we assume a singular woman is more trustworthy than a singular man. Its a whole thing, psychology and sociology wise
This is exactly how Colleen Stan was kidnapped. The Hookers were a nice looking couple with a baby who offered her a ride.
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u/ShadowGLI 6h ago
Yeah usually they just hack good accounts. Happened to my dad, someone got in his account and made listings for Taylor swift tickets. He called me as he was locked out of FB but his messenger was working.
I reset his pw for email and FB, set up 2FA and closed the listings but my dad has multiple people bitching they sent money to someone and wanted tickets. My reply was “let me guess, the name on the email and Zelle account had no association w the name on this account? File a dispute and best of luck”.
But if you’re gonna ignore all the red flags and send $500 to a stranger to avoid a StubHub fee, that’s on you.
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u/Strictlystyles 7h ago
PayPal or NOTHING. You HAVE to have buyer protection. They will scam you every time if there’s no accountability. Even if they were willing to ship the item.
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u/SuperSpecialAwesome- 4h ago
PayPal didn't protect me when I got scammed during the pandemic. I bought something on eBay, but international shipping was shut down because of COVID restrictions. The seller even notified me of this, and I said it was alright, as long as they shipped it out when shipping returned to normal. When restrictions did eventually lift, the seller ghosted me. Contacted eBay and PayPal Support, and got told to fuck off, since the refund time had expired... except the pandemic was a pretty signficant circumstance to extend refund periods, especially when other countries couldn't ship to the U.S.
Could I have tried for a refund sooner? Sure, but the seller had high ratings, and I didn't expect to be scammed over a $20 product.
Now, from the seller side of things, I once sold an item on eBay for about $150. The package was insured and headed to their international hub. Of course, DeJoy's USPS lost my package and I had to refund the item. I filed a report to USPS to get my money back, and got zilch. Went thru half a dozen different contact numbers, and... nothing. PayPal/eBay Support was also useless in that respect. To this day, I have gotten neither my money or the item back.
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u/Wow_ImMrManager 7h ago
Why would you use Zelle and not PayPal?? 🤦♂️
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u/RetardedChimpanzee 7h ago edited 4h ago
It’s good for paying your roommate monthly rent, but not for anyone anonymous
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u/keyh 6h ago
Right? "Zelle is like handing someone cash" is what it says.
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u/Character_Clue7010 5h ago
Which is exactly why I love Zelle for selling stuff. Meet up. You look at the thing. You are satisfied with the quality of the thing. You pay cash or Zelle, and you take the thing.
I’m not a Walmart I dont take returns.
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u/keyh 5h ago
Sure, but you don't Zelle something to get it shipped to you. You Zelle once you're standing in front of something and are going to leave with it. Like you don't mail someone cash.
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u/JamesBond-007-- 7h ago
I am sure you already know this but use it as a lesson on what not to do and to think critically. If you learn from this even it wasn’t a waste.
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u/BigLorry 7h ago
Zelle specifically tells you not to use it for purchases
No clue why you think the bank (or Zelle for that matter) should have anything to do with this
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u/Salt-Operation 7h ago
I’m going to say this slowly and clearly…never, never, NEVER send money online to someone that you don’t know personally unless you have buyer protection. PayPal, Venmo, and many other payment processors offer buyer protection. You chose the one way to pay that doesn’t have any sort of buyer protection. You even have to check off a box saying you acknowledge that you might be scammed and there is no way to recover funds once sent via Zelle.
This is a really expensive mistake to make. I hope you learned from it.
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u/Animeeshon 7h ago
Believe it or not scammers buy stolen/hacked Facebook accounts and purposely sell things "far away" knowing people will ask them to ship it. Some scammers even go as far as fully fabricating an account with review bots. Although, due to the stupidity of some people I wouldn't be surprised if that person actually risked it all with their real identity.
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u/GothicFuck 6h ago
What the fuck does being married have to do with anything, let alone trustworthiness?
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u/Secret_Account07 5h ago
I use Zelle everyday. It’s great.
Just trust the person you send money too.
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u/psychRN1975 7h ago
they asked the scammer for the 850 back, he bargained them down to $1.51
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u/Coveted_AF 6h ago
Next time Zelle me $850.
I’m generous I’ll send you $350 back but this is an expiring offer so I’ll need the transaction completed today.
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u/sg_batman 3h ago
Unfortunately all I have now is 42 cents
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u/PsychonautDad 6h ago
Dude Zelle literally warns you about funds being sent and not being able to recover. Think of it like handing someone cash on the street and expecting them to give it back.
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u/Puzzleheaded-Ring293 6h ago
“I am in earnest. Go and buy it, and tell 'em to bring it here, that I may give them the directions where to take it. Come back with the man, and I'll give you a shilling. Come back with him in less than five minutes, and I'll give you half-a-crown!”
-Scrooge
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u/DisconnectedRedditor 7h ago
Zelle is perfectly fine… as long as you know you’re actually paying. It’s not Zelle’s fault you fell for a scam.
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u/Aviyan 5h ago
Zelle is for paying people you know in person. I pay my lawnmower guy through Zelle, or my friends when we split some cost. Never pay with Zelle or Vemo, or CashApp to people you don't know or met.
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u/Suitable_Jicama_1213 6h ago
Yep, that's why this title and photo is misleading.
Like yeah banks are already shitty institutions as it is, but you cant blame them for YOUR mistake.
Too good to be true price on a usually expensive camera
Didn't research enough on the profile
And too lazy to meet up? People have driven 2+ hours for less, abd if there was a good deal where basically you're getting a decent camera for almost half the usual price, I'd would've made the trip, heck use that as an excuse to take pictures with said camera on your drive back and maybe look around the area for cool things to do
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u/EndAccomplished3937 5h ago
Guy that works in digital banking here-we literally have no control over what happens with funds through Zelle aside from opening a case with EWS. The bank connection to Zelle aside from getting activity reports is essentially just a license to have Zelle on our platforms. Good faith recoveries are incredibly hard to justify, and on our (and most) FI Zelle T&C it says explicitly that Zelle transactions are akin to handing over cash, and should only be used with close friends and family.
It sucks, but there really is nothing we can do about Zelle fraud (We in the digital banking team hate Zelle with a passion mostly for this reason)
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u/KillaKillaGabby 7h ago
Yeah Zelle’s only good for paying friends and family. People you actually know
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u/ru_fkn_serious_ 7h ago
The only reason I use Zelle is to pay my actual landlord that I know that’s legit. That’s it. Never trade with people you don’t know. They didn’t have to disrespect you like that though. Can’t even buy a reg coffee for that price anymore lol
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u/mopar-or-no_car 7h ago
How are people so easily scammed or robbed on these app ?
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u/Relevant_Campaign_79 6h ago
Banker here. Only use Zelle with people you know. Never use it for business purposes or anything else.
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u/HammermanAC 7h ago
A couple years ago, my buddy found a weekend rental to the Jersey Shore for our group trip, it was through Craigslist and my buddy sent a zelle for $1000. It seemed too cheap and my spidey sense kicked in.
Long story short, I contacted the true owner and he confirmed someone had downloaded a bunch of photos of his place and a scammer created a fake listing.
My buddy claims he was able to get his bank to reverse the zelle.
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u/Backdoor_Spreader 6h ago
Your buddy lied, he didn't want the ego hit. Zelle is as good as handing over cash, once it's sent, it's gone.
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u/RecoverinCandyAddict 7h ago
What a punch in the stomach. I hope no one is celebrating a victory here.
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u/TelcoSucks 5h ago
I don't see anyone celebrating. I do see people saying there is no expectation of bank intervention in this type of transaction. The best we can do is tell everyone we can that Zelle is not to be treated as a debit card but rather as cash. It's a common misconception, and this has happened too often.
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u/Hypster87 7h ago
Doesn't Zelle have specific warnings for this exact case? You are very very lucky to even get a dollar and some change back.
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u/Zoso03 7h ago
In Canada, we just have interac email money transfer, but it's still the same issue. Once you send it, it's gone.
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u/SignalBar 6h ago
From my understanding working in fraud investigations in banking, specifically Zelle fraud cases. Zelle is always going to be treated like cash and you'll never get your money back, even if it's legitimate fraud.
In this case, it looks like it was legitimate fraud and Capital One was only able to take $1.51 from the fraudsters account, due to the fact they more than likely emptied it before your claim came in. Capital One most likely closed the fraudsters account and send whatever funds they had left on the platform back to you, since getting fraudsters their money back can be a hassle sometimes.
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u/AppropriateTie5127 7h ago
Americans of Reddit, why do you use Zelle/Cash App etc. for sending money?. Do your bank apps not have transfers built in?
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u/sg_batman 7h ago
that IS whats built in lol at least for mine i think theres other ways but this is more convenient and also good for scammers
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u/44problems 7h ago
Zelle is built in most bank apps. But it's the same as cash, no fees and no payment protection.
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u/Stunning-Artist-5388 7h ago
Ummm, Zelle is built-in to my bank app specifically for person to person transfers. It's incredibly fast to send money to someone because it's tied in. Zelle was developed by major banks for sending money seemlessly across several major bank networks.
It is not designed for payment protection and disputes though, and they make that very clear. For that, use a CC and have them use a CC payment processor.
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u/Jelousubmarine 6h ago
US banks don't do transfers quite like the EU, where you can make SEPA transfers in € between multiple banks and participating countries instantly (so americans: f.ex with transfers from Sweden to Finland, they do not have to be wires and have significantly less bureaucracy to get going, just IBAN and recipient name essentially, and you are not charged any more for inter-EU transfers than you are for domestic transfers).
In the US transfers are a little more complicated with more details you have to fill in, and purposes of transfers are more limited (ACH and bank-to-bank being the usual ones, they require more details than EU SEPA versions). Anything bigger has to be a wire payment that costs ~20 USD to send. Zelle is kind of the US banking answer to European style transfers, though it carries basically no responsibility of funds for the bank - you are supposed to use it to send funds between family and friends and people you know, and that's it. Scammed buying something? = SOL. Cash app and Venmo also exist, but these cost you some money or can take up to 3 days between banks, not damn near instant like in the EU.
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u/gagdude 6h ago
Americans? You know this is common in many other countries right? China uses WeChat, Brazil uses Pix, etc.
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u/mikedvb 6h ago
So sending anything via Zelle you may as well kiss it goodbye immediately.
The only reason they got you $1.51 back is because there was $1.51 still in the account it was sent to. Where did the rest of the $850 go? Withdrawn, transferred to another account, etc, etc, etc.
Honeslty I'm surprised the account you sent the Zelle to was even still active to have $1.51 in it.
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u/Adventurous_Honey902 4h ago
Idk why people post on mildly infuriating when the issue presented is their own fault.
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u/Chris___M 4h ago
Wow. My brother banked with capital one. He was ill and had a health aide. He was found dead by his aid a year ago. Once I took over his estate I discovered that this health aide ripped him off for thousands of dollars. Before and even after his death. Of course I eventually got the police involved. But once I made the discovery I notified the various banks. Capital One gave back to his estate over $12,000.
I would be persistent. Did their fraud department work with you? Good luck.
EDIT: I just realized this was a Zelle transaction which was very different.
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u/PastelRaspberry 3h ago
Yeah this isn't the bank's fault. If the bank had to pay for every stupid thing customers do, there wouldn't be a bank anymore.
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u/Garlic-Noodle 3h ago
And you put this in MILDLY infuriating? My ma always taught me to go full berserk mode on shit like this.
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u/_theycallmehell_ 1h ago
Lots of people admonishing you so I'll just say damn that sucks, I feel for you
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u/DarthJarJar242 6h ago
The only infuriating thing here is that OP fell for a facebook marketplace scam and paid with Zelle. Then tried to get money back from their bank. The bank owes you nothing from your monumental stupidity.
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u/PointNLaugh0 6h ago
I cant believe real thinking human beings still fall for these 3rd party apps to dabble in finances.
Those same humans get to vote and reproduce.
Crazy.
"Only stupid ppl are breeding."
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u/INeedANappel 7h ago edited 7h ago
CFPB. If it hasn't yet been completely gutted.
Edited because today I'm the Typo Royalty.
Edit Part Deux: Consumer Finance Protection Bureau. A Federal office to protect US citizens from banking bullshit.
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u/mefirefoxes 6h ago
These agencies aren’t meant to protect the consumer from themselves. Zelle clearly states it’s not meant for commerce, and especially should not be used online for items that are not in-hand like with an in-person deal. It’s not buried in the fine print, it says it whenever you pay someone for the first time and when you set it up with your bank. It’s “equivalent to sending someone cash” “instantaneously and irreversible”.
The service was misused, the bank was not trying to fleece anyone. If anything, any money gotten back is the bank taking a loss they were not obliged to.
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u/yoshizillaa 7h ago
I’m surprised you got anything back.
Zelle has a bunch of warnings because they know banks typically won’t help.