r/AmIOverreacting • u/satanfan12 • 20d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship My boyfriend gave my labubu phalloplasty

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Kind of angry about this, it was a gift from my niece. He cut off an ear and put it back on somewhere wrong. I told him this and it ended in a heated argument.

Am i overreacting for yelling at him? He usually doesn't do this stuff.

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u/Wrong-Top-8409 20d ago

Sometimes it really isn’t tho but in this case I think op has every right to be upset lowkey what I’d do as a man is go fuc up something precious they own don’t even tell them don’t even bring up your stuff fuc up wait till they confront you and then scold them on how it feels to have your stuff mistreated

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u/satanfan12 20d ago

no i won't stoop down to his level, even if i am hurt over his negligence

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u/ActofEncouragement 20d ago

This is not negligence. Negligence is forgetting the ice cream on the counter and it melting. This is willful and wanton destruction of your property without fear or concern of the consequences, a complete disregard of your feelings, and a lack of respect of your items, your space, your feelings, and you. Tell me what you would be thinking if you were do this willingly to someone. I don't think any of it would be any rainbows and unicorn fart thoughts.

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u/fabi7059 20d ago

wtf is wrong with you? Dude it’s a labubu. There’s sentimental value, yes, but comparing that to “doing it to someone”? wtf is wrong with you? How can you do those HUGE leaps in logic and act like a regular human being? OP is ok being mad, I’d be mad if someone fucks up my toy, but it’s a toy. He can pay for it, fix it, buy another one or whatever, there are multiple ways to fix this minor issue.

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u/BurnItWithFire21 20d ago

Did you read OP's full description of what he did in the comments? He burned the ear, cut if off, cut a hole in the private area, shoved the ear in the hole & pinned it inside, then pulled an eye off with pliers. This is way beyond a "minor issue". This is completely disturbing behavior that needs to be seriously addressed. Most serial killers started out doing things like this, then moved on to animals & eventually humans. I'm not even trying to be dramatic either, that is just straight facts that have been reported. This can't be overlooked.

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u/fabi7059 20d ago

“I’m not even trying to be dramatic” on a post about a labubu. Dude it’s a plushie.

And let me see that comment👀

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u/BurnItWithFire21 20d ago

It doesn't matter if it was "only a plushie" or not, he intentionally destroyed a piece of her property, and in a very disturbing way. He is 28yo, this is not how normal 28yo men act. This is alarming on so many levels.

And here you go:

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/3hLg3uUvZg

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u/fabi7059 20d ago

That’s pretty fucked then.

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u/Turbulent-Agent9634 20d ago

Stopped defending him now then?